Thoughts on the latest discussion:
I’m happy to RP with Garlean Rpers so long as it’s pretty flagrantly obvious they don’t believe OOC that Garlemald is great. One of my favorite RP experiences was with a player who RPed a Garlean spy. The way she handled the exploration of that character was so nuanced and well-done, building all of the conflict and tension between her character and the Ala Mhigan characters amongst the group. I got to explore all of Tiergan’s rage, horror, and frustration over someone who in that moment represented the nation that took everything away from him.
I was able to safely explore all of those themes and feelings because I knew that separation of IC and OOC was there. I knew this person understood she was playing a villain and building a conflict. She used plenty of OOC communication back and forth so everyone was comfortable and on the same page.
Another friend of mine plays a Garlean conscript and I am PSYCHED to play with this person, because of Tiergan’s history and internal fears around what might have happened to him if he’d never managed to escape Garlean subjugation as a child. These conflicts and the emotional turmoil they bring about in my character are the themes I’ve always wanted to explore with Tiergan and I could only do so with the kind of character my friend is bringing to the table.
I can get why the above might not be fun for others on a personal level, and that’s okay. It’s not for everyone just like how certain types of RP are not for me.
Where things get uncomfortable for me personally is when a RPer OOC expresses admiration, praise, or sympathy for the Garlean empire as a whole, tries to characterize the empire as not truly villainous, or tries to maintain OOC that all other nations really are “savages” that would have their quality of life improved if they just stopped fighting and let the Garlean empire subjugate them. It’s one thing for the character to say and believe all of it is IC - it’s another for it to be an out of character belief.
I’ve literally seen other players write blog posts about how Doma/Ala Mhigo were only brutalized as badly as they were, because they fought back and should have accepted their subjugation so they’d be treated way better. This gets unnerving as all hell when you consider that Garlemald is very white-coded and Doma/Ala Mhigo are super PoC-coded.
That creeps the heck out of me and so I make a mental note of it and quietly avoid.












