So something I realized recently. A couple years ago I found Nick Pitera, a ventriloquist singer on YouTube who I absolutely love, and for things I love I like to show them off.
So one morning before school my mom's boyfriend and I got talking about singers and I decided to show him Nick Pitera. I showed him "Disney Medley" and "Phantom of the Opera" to show Nick's vocal range.
My mom's boyfriend didn't really say much, a few words of surprise here and there, until my mom showed up. He called her over, pointed out Nick, and I'm over here thinking, "oh he's showing her this awesome singer". But no, he asked my mom what nationality Nick Pitera was. He thought Nick looked Greek or of Greek descent, and my mom thought he looked half Persian. That was what they cared about, not that he sang Christine amazingly. They then turn to me and ask if I knew (I didn't and still don't).
Now I'm here thinking why the hell are you paying attention to how he looks? Why does it matter if he's Greek or Persian or any nationality? Why are you focusing on whether or not he had a Greek nose and not on the fact he can flawlessly sing several different pitches? It was something that confused me, up until recently.
I'm not sure if it's true or if I'm on the right track, but I think the reason they looked at his race instead of his voice is because his race chose how great he was at singing. Which I, and others my generation (or at least the ones I know), don't care about. If we see a great singer, we see a voice and not an ethnicity. But my mom's era (probably not all of them though) see a voice and judges them off their race. It didn't matter if they were great, or the new King or Queen of a genre, their race changed how they reacted.
I can vouch this because at the end of the videos, before my mom's boyfriend went to work, he said he didn't much care for the songs, which wasn't completely true because he'd been humming along to the songs. And later, if they ever brought him up, they'd ask about the Greek singer. Not the ventriloquist or Disney or "Phantom of the Opera" singer, but the Greek singer. If I ever brought him up, they didn't know who I was talking about until I mentioned his physical features. It's just... Kinda disturbing how that's what they remembered, and not at all the original reason I showed them Nick Pitera. And I wanted to share this because it seemed like one of those things people experience commonly but have no idea about it.
And btw, if you don't know him yet, here's Nick Pitera's channel, please check him out: Channel Link :3