congrats on 100 followers! your blog is really pretty ♡
🎩 - C,J, M, Q with thomas shelby please? thank u so much :)
Thank you so much, dear!! 💗💗 (also can we just take a minute to appreciate Tommy in those suspenders and this shirt because 🤌🤌)
Cuddles: Do they enjoy cuddling? Are they more the big or the little spoon?
I think Tommy enjoys cuddling quite a lot. Whenever you have the occasion, he won’t hesitate to pass his arms around you. He may not have a lot of time but you know, when he comes home and you're on the couch he might join you or when you're in bed. I’ve said it before but to me, one of his major love languages is physical touch and he’s a very touched starved man so he craves for this kind of affection. He will definitely never say it aloud but he loves having the opportunity to cuddle. I might go as far to say that each moment where he gets to hold you (or be held by you) heals him a little bit more every time
It doesn’t matter to him, really, as long as you’re close to him he’s happy. However he does enjoy whenever you hold him, especially after a hard day. It’s very unnatural for him to admit it. And I think he's also low-key ashamed of this need to be loved and cared for which might seem a bit stupid because we all need physical affection but it doesn't really go with the whole image he wants to reflect. But he does needs to be held, he needs to be vulnerable as well no matter how hard he tries to fight so once he's secure enough and comfortable enough around you, he’ll let you hug him.
Jealousy: Are they jealous? How do they react if you are jealous?
I wouldn't say he's a jealous type of guy because he knows what he's worth and he is quite confident. However, I do see him as somehow possessive. Not really in toxic way, he's never going to order you around and tell you to not dress a certain way, to not talk to other men, etc...because he trusts you and he knows you would never betray him like that but he will have a tendency to stay around you when you're chatting with an other man. It will be very subtle, you know? He'll keep an arm around your waist, won't hesitate to kiss you and things like that. To sum up, he may trust you with his life, he doesn't trust other men and he'll make sure to let them know who gets to take you home at the end of the night.
Now if you're the jealous one, he will definitely find it funny in a cute way at first. I mean...how adorable from you to snap at that woman or kiss him as if no one else was around, acting all innocent even if he can see straight through your little game. However, if your jealousy comes from a place of insecurity and he can you're really upset about it, he'll definitely take the time to reassure you you're the only one for him and he doesn't give a damn about some posh lady who came to him for whatever reason.
Mornings: What is it like waking up by their side?
Here ♡
Quarrels: What is it like to have a fight with them? How are they when they’re angry?
Fighting with Tommy is always a very grueling moment. It's not always screaming although the volume might get louder for the worst arguments but it's just extremely demanding on an emotional level. Especially if you're just as stubborn and strong-headed as he is or if you've been piling up small things until it gets too much and basically blows up all at once. That mixed with the fact that Tommy isn't always the most patient person particularly when he's already on edge because of business related issues can be...explosive to say the least.
Now an angry Tommy is probably the worst thing you could get. Primarily because he has built this strong armor to shield himself from the pain his life put him through which means whenever he feels like he's in a state of weakness, he will just shut down so you don't get to see how vulnerable he is at the moment. He feels extremely "weak" when you're fighting so instinctively he will just hide behind the walls he put up through the years and become this cold, distant and seemingly untouchable man. He can get pretty harsh and, it's not intentional but quite mean as well. He will regret the words as soon as they come out of his mouth but he might say hurtful things under his anger. However he's just trying to hide his vulnerability through this facade because he feels like he's losing control over the situation and it terrifies him. To sum up, when he's angry, his spontaneous reaction will be to push you away before you get the chance to hurt him which will ultimately lead to hurting you before he can so he will take his distances and try to stay away from you. If you end up still arguing verbally, then he'll keep that distance by not letting through any emotion.
Nevertheless, I would like to mention that it gets better as your relationship evolves. I think that with enough trust, he will begin to internalize the fact that you would never take advantage of his vulnerable state to hurt him and slowly start admitting things. He will still mostly distance himself and try to keep his armor but sometimes, he will also tell you when he's scared or insecure or when something is bothering him. Your fights will be less and less worse with time.
