Do white people have like a different idea about names??? Specifically nicknames??? Like I’ll tell someone “yeah that’s what friends/family call me, you can use it if you’d like :)” and the response is “what do you prefer?” And it’s….you can say either, I prefer both equally, you can make one up for me right now??? And for some reason this doesn’t compute and I’ve only had this conversation with white people before 😭







