May 22
one time my ex said "and you thought you were ace" after sex and i believed it because of the rampant misunderstanding of aspec so basically thank you for running this blog, because there needs to be more information like this out there!
When I tell you the same thing happened to me and I didn't have language for how gross it made me feel!
we didn't even have sex, just light handsy stuff
There really is ONE accepted ace narrative that people know, and it means people like us get gross, invalidating experiences like that. I agree, we absolutely need more representation and education about sex favorable aces/aspecs.
