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No dude. Being pro paraphilia means supporting EVERYBODY who has a paraphilia. Including the ones that offend. If you don’t support them, you aren’t pro paraphilia.
You need to include everybody.
No. I don’t support abusers. Thanks. Being pro para isn’t pro abuse. You aren’t pro para, you’re just a predator.
Being pro paraphilia/paraphila safe means supporting and enabling that permamonika dude you were bitching about. if you don’t support them, you are not paraphilia safe you ableist fuck. you deserve to get your teeth ripped out with rusty pliers. /srs
The fact that you feel the need to back your claim up with violence proves my point.
being pro para does not mean advocating for abuse. It means not assuming anybody who has a paraphilia is a monster. Pro para advocates for mental health awareness regarding paraphiles, harm reduction support for paraphiles with harmful paraphilias, and overall providing a safe space for people to talk about their struggles with paraphilia and find community. It is NOT a dogwhistle for predators to use. It is not a way to advocate for abuse.
Pro-contact big three is abuse. Children cannot consent. Animals cannot consent. Dead people cannot consent. permamonika is dating a 15 year old as an adult. They are grooming them. They need to be deplatformed and put in jail.
Saying "grooming is bad" is not ableist. You need to get off tumblr and get your priorities straight.
Why don’t you post on choco anymore? /genq
I saw they got your old blog termed. Are you like afraid of them or something?
okay because you guys wont stop BLOWING UP MY FUCKING INBOX ABOUT THIS, I'm going to say this for the final fucking time.
My old blog got terminated. Unfortunately most of my posts on choco are gone. So if anybody has an archive or reblogs of my old posts, please dm me so I can back them up to my google drive.
Here are the google docs I have already made on them. Unfortunately, since all blogs linked are now gone, best I have are screenshots.
This google doc is in response to the post infinite-survivor-mirmo/infinite-proship-choco made here: https://www.tumblr.com/infinite-survivo
Introduction Hello everyone. My name is GraveKandy. You can just refer to me as Morgan for the sake of simplicity. I’ve recently been invol
Choco has been a problem within our community for eight months. I, and many others have come forward about them only to be met with stalking, harassment, and threats of doxing.
They spread false accusations of sexual harassment, racism, ableism and grooming. They called a dear friend of mine a sexual predator for making some petty fanart of their comfort character as a meme reference. Did I think it was in bad taste? Yes. I made it very clear to them that I didn't like it. But I didn't end the friendship over it because it was petty bullshit, and it was frankly the worst thing they've done in comparison to everything choco has pulled.
They threatened to call ICE on the SAME dear friend of mine in, who is a person of color, in retaliation, thinking they were well within their right to. When I called them out for it, saying it was disgusting to directly support a fascist regime like that in response to online drama, they then tried to say I had no place to comment on their ICE threat since I was a white American.
Choco is a Spaniard.
I have been very clear from day one that I KNOW I have white privilege. I know that I am not as much of a target as my POC brothers and sisters in America. I have never experienced racism. I have never experienced what they experienced and I never claimed to. I try to use my voice to uplift theirs, and stand beside them in the face of tyranny.
I am however, still a target since I am a queer, transmasculine AFAB living under Trump's regime. My rights are also being threatened. My reproductive rights are being signed away in office as we speak. My right to be who I am, to marry the girl I love, is in jeopardy. And everyone's right to speak out against the regime is being threatened. People are being murdered in the streets for speaking out against ICE. Look up Alex Pretti.
Everyone is in danger in america. Nobody can afford food. Nobody can afford rent. Nobody can afford medical care. Not unless they are wealthy, which believe me, I am not.
I said Choco had no right to threaten the very real fascist uprising against us. I called them out for their disgusting behavior, and I rightfully called them privileged for it. They are living in Spain. A country with free healthcare, and last I checked, not living under fascist takeover.
Choco doesn't have to work. They don't have to provide for themselves. They are disabled, I know. And I am genuinely glad they have somebody to care for them. But the fact they even have a loving mother who can care for them full-time is in itself a privilege.
I have to work to afford my medication. I have to choose between paying for my phone bill, and paying for my meds. I'm currently off my meds because I had to wait for my paycheck to come in. I had to ask my own girlfriend for a small boost because I wouldn't be able to get it in time. I live with my grandparents full time, which is in itself a privilege. One I am greatful for. But it's only out of necessity. I didn't choose this. They don't pay for anything other than the roof over my head and food on the table because they can't afford to. I'm even preparing to start paying rent, despite me not having the money for it, which is money I would have to take out of my funds for my medicine and phone bill, just so we can keep the lights on. (They did not ask this of me, I'm doing this because they are elderly and cannot work.)
Even with the best health insurance money can buy in America, I still have to fight to get my healthcare covered, because insurance companies in america REFUSE to cover treatment unless they're strong armed into it by the law. I can't afford to go to the doctor. When I fell down the stairs a couple weeks ago, my first thought wasn't "I should get to a doctor," my first thought was "I hope to god my foot isn't broken because I can't afford to seek treatment"
I was beyond lucky it was only a broken toe.
So. Am I afraid of Choco? No. I'm not. I'm tired of arguing with a brick wall.
I have more important things to worry about than what horse shit some miserable little prick is spouting online. My grandfather is getting heart surgery tomorrow. I've been spending most of my time taking care of my grandmother, and making plans in case something goes wrong. I've been spending time with her, making dinner, and helping with house stuff so her plate is a little less full.
I've also been trying to focus on my new job as a small town journalist. I love it. It's a perfect fit for me, and it's a better thing to focus on than this shit.
This is the last I'm commenting on this. This is my stance. This is always going to be my stance. I'm done answering asks about Choco because frankly, if I keep commenting on them, something is going to happen to me medically due to the inconceivable rage I feel towards them every time they are brought up.
This is the last fucking time I'm bringing them up on this new blog. So do me a favor and leave me alone about it. I never wanted to make this fucking post, but you assholes strong-armed me into making it.
So take this, and fuck off.
https://www.tumblr.com/gravekandy-undead/809534423925129216/i-dont-mean-to-bring-up-choco-but-this-feels?source=share
That anon was stalking Chocos followers and being strange about kids making nsfw blogs, anon seemed to be looking for It, which is really weird.
Anons are trying to rope all sides into drama and spreading misinformation as usual.
Mm thing is, minors shouldn’t be making nsfw blogs. They shouldn’t be publicly posting about their sexuality on the internet, which is a public forum open to anybody who wants to interact.
If choco is the savior for minors like they claim to be, they would understand that, and likely say something to said minor. As an adult who is WAY older than them, there is an inherent duty to say something. Especially if the minor in question was Choco’s mutual like anon claimed. Because it’s one thing if it’s just some random kid. Best you can do is say “hey, that’s not a good idea, don’t do that”. But if it’s your mutual? Someone you interact with regularly? You need to properly pull them aside and say “hey, that’s dangerous. Don’t do that shit”
Kids don’t know better, but adults do. If something dangerous like that was brought to their attention, and their response was just “kids will be kids!” That’s negligent as fuck. While I believe it’s not people’s job to raise other people’s kids, if you claim to be friends with a minor and let them do crazy dangerous shit like that, in my personal opinion, it’s negligent at best, predatory at the worst.
Forced activism is the death of activism
You do not need to constantly engage with something to care about it.
The Epstein files were released the way they were to manipulate the masses. They were meant to bombard us with horrific, hard to stomach information to deliberately destabilize, horrify, and collapse.
They want us to feel hopeless. They want us dissociated, they want us frazzled and left feeling afraid and helpless.
It’s good to stay informed. But you already know what you need to know. Get off your phone.
The best thing you can do in the face of tyranny is be happy, and stand with your community. Spend time with your family. Spend time with your friends. Indulge in what makes you happy, and stand strong with the people around you. It’s harder to break us when we’re united. Don’t fall for their dogma.
I need you all to understand how much I fucking loathe ai
https://ktla.com/news/technology/co-founder-of-xbox-says-video-game-console-will-be-sunsetted-amid-ai-push/
Microsoft is basically ending Xbox. They’re “sunsetting” their motherfucking STAPLE CONSOLE in favor for focusing on ai tech.
I grew up with Xbox. It’s by far my favorite console. I have been a loyal Xbox fan since I was a small child and then Microsoft pulls this bullshit.
It’s unlikely anything big like servers shutting down will happen for a while, but I’m still enraged.
“Oh it costs money to keep the gaming industry afloat, we have to pay writers and renderers and blah blah blah blah blah” YEAH. NO SHIT. THAT IS HOW JOBS WORK.
Microsoft is about to lose a massive chunk of their customer base if they go through with this. Nobody wants ai. Everyone wants the bubble to burst and die.
To say I’m beyond angry is an understatement
hey, feel free to ignore this ask completely or add to your document, or whatever. but i find it like, ironic that choco just wont give up bringing minty up. like, the last post he made was february 18th, where he posted a screenshot of choco following him from the new account. that's the last post minty made about choco after being inactive on that blog for over a month. providing link cuz im not saying this stuff without proof https://www.tumblr.com/infinite-mirmo-survivorshlp/810715579938897920/tumblr?source=share
Ngl this just proves my theory that choco will seek out attention wherever they can, even if it means starting shit with someone long since removed from the drama. Choco cannot give up drama. It’s their livelihood. Hell, it took them weeks to get bored of me after I stopped responding to their bait. And they’re still going off about me being a sexual predator or whatever the fuck.
It would be funny if it wasn’t so sad tbh
The only anons I'm answering from here on out are anons removed from the situation, direct accusations against me, or anons providing evidence. I'm not hosting anon arguments, and I'm not taking bait. I'm done talking about the choco shit unless it's direct evidence against them, or clearing up accusations about me. That is it.
