sat by a fire at a brewery with a hypersexual lady (go queen) and she wanted me to explain asexuality to her. we were both high. i think she was having the most meta night of her life.
i especially wanted to pull my fucking hair out over these questions:
“so you just have no libido?”
no. that’s not it.
“have you been to a therapist to talk about this?”
yes but…it’s not a health condition honey.
“so you hate PDA?”
eh, maybe? but that’s just my neurodivergent ass.
“do you hate hand holding like ewwww?”
uhhh idc? it’s not like a big deal to me?
“so you just like talking to people?”
honey yes…but i still get freakehh im not necessarily celibate.
“like - have you talked to a doctor about it?”
😑
“I’m so sorry you have to go through this”
BITCH ITS NOT A CURSE ITS JUST WHO I AM
“so you like just aren’t ready for sex?”
sigh…
CAN WE PLEASE MAKE ACE DISCUSSIONS MORE MAINSTREAM?? I have no problem explaining stuff but this was exhausting.