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Apparently at age 42, chili with beans is no longer my friend. #GrowingUpAt42 #BubbleGuts #MommyFab #EfabulousHB

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#GrowingUpAt42 ... I have always tried to be strong, non chalant and carefree. I'm really emotional, big hearted, loving and soft. That's who I am. That's who I be. #MommyFab #EfabulousHB #FabWorld #PiscesEmotionalMess

Tiny Buddha originally shared:

"You’ll never know who you are unless you shed who you pretend to be." ~Vironika Tugaleva

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#GrowingUpAt42 #DivorcedMomChronicles ... this is a lesson I keep having to learn, yet I'm really Blessed because there are these wonderful places in the universe where I can just be me and unleash my smile. I just gotta stop hanging around people who don't care about breaking my spirit. #MommyFab #Efabulous HB #GoWhereYouAreWanted #ChemistryIsNotFriendship #ChemistryIsNotLove http://ow.ly/Pp6LJ

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Repost +Love Quotes ❤​ via Facebook

If you really care about someone, you'll make an effort to make things work out instead of leaving them unhappy & confused

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#DivorceMomChronicles #GrowingUpAt42 >>> When a person doesn't make an effort to make things work out, that means they never really card about you. You were just "convenient". Hard to hear and devastating to feel. I have felt this three times in my life... And I am done. #MommyFab #EfabulousHB #FabWorld #LosingAtLoveFeelingLost #LovingPeopleWhoDontValueYou

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A Thank You Letter to the Men Who Didn’t Have the Balls to Claim Me.

An excerpt from the article:

Thank you for attempting to dim my light so I learned that I needed to burn as bright as I could.

Thank you for being afraid of the power of my sexuality, and the mysteries of my eyes because it taught me that only those who can match my passion should be allowed to share in it with me.

Thank you for being scared of my intelligence and the depths of my mind, because it taught me there is a difference in loving how I look, or how I make you feel versus loving who I really am.

Thank you for not being the man that I needed, so that instead I was able to see the woman I already was.

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I have wanted to write these things to the four men I have loved deeply, who have all tossed me aside like yesterday's trash and discounted me as a friend, a woman and a formidable partner. I found this article completely sublime and appropriate to my situation. She wrote what has been on my heart for years.

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Lifehack - Tips for Life

#GrowingUpAt42 Know your worth. Set boundaries. Remember, people change. http://goo.gl/4fNy9R…/20-brutally-honest-things-women-t… See More http://ow.ly/Pp3mr #MommyFab #EfabulousHB #LifeSometimesHurts

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#GrowingUpAt42  > If I have another cup of coffee after 3pm, I won't sleep until Brooklyn. #MommyFab   #EfabulousHB   #MyTeethStillHurt   #SoftFoodsOnlyBooooooo  

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My teeth hurt really bad. They did the left side today. I feel kinda helpless. I cannot really smile and I am hungry. I definitely need a cuddle. Lol. I also need copious amounts of wine... But I am on antibiotics. Yeah, okay new strategy... I need lobster bisque and a really good cuddle. #GrowingUpAt42 #MyTeethAreOld #MommyFab #EfabulousHB #FabWorld #FabGirls