#harharr

[sugarstarcon]

Hello people, I present to you a KaixRuki College AU

[zahwanaulisstuff]

"How am I supposed to trust you? My crew left me in middle of seas." Close-up of Mary Celeste! It's a she! But she became a trap for @squavery to be happy (?) #maryceleste #ship #1867 #pirate #harharr #moe #kantaicollection #kancolle

[bouncyenvos]

You know, when someone says 'ladies first', or 'you wouldn't hit a lady, would you?', 'be a man about it', 'you're such a boy/girl', this activity is for boys/girls, or even calls you Miss, Mr., Mrs., he, she, boy(friend), girl(friend), etc. --anything that denotes the male-female binary and thus perpetuating the split of those two and only those two.

Perhaps I'm only oversensitive about it and I know there's no way to completely escape being placed into either the male or female category, but hawt diggity do I feel ODD. I mean, I do say that I like being called both male and female, but more and more so would I rather neither.

I highly appreciate those understanding few, those who even ask my preferences,  and those who do try to choose their words and stay as gender neutral as possible when referencing me, and I do understand it's not easy to keep it neutral. I suppose I just don't like being defined and treated accordingly by those terms. Just not sure if to tell people or not.

Well then. I ought to list my preference as of now, if just to see if it changes. Pronoun-wise, I like he, she, and they. Gender queer/Gender neutral is how I view myself and gender neutrality/androgyny is how I like to express/present myself (although I may not be doing too well a job of it haha).

And then I don't like being referenced with 'gendered terms' ah hahahahhhhhh ungggg. gahhhhh.

[kolluor-blog]

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