#hazeltown

[flimzy]

what is the one song you can listen to on repeat forever and never get sick of?

The smiths - there's a light that never goes out :3 

100000000000000000000 <3

[northumberland-blog]

if you had a house in the jungle in the trees looking out onto a valley that dipped into the ocean in the distance, would you be lonely, or would you be happy because it was so beautiful?

Lonely.

I always manage to feel lonely.

[northumberland-blog]

do you like liking things?

If you mean on tumblr, no.

If you mean in real life, no.

If you mean anywhere, no.

But I do.

[northumberland-blog]

I just kept noticing your mouth, and how your face just fit. Into every aching void, in what I've always missed some way

WHAT IS THIS BEAUTIFUL MUSIC I AM HEARING. WHAT IS LIFE.

[northumberland-blog]

what else do you like on your toast apart from morphine?

Cocaine tbh.

[aplaceforthesoul]

my gf just told me she cuts and burns to make her feel better, she's tried to commit suicide. I'm the only one she's told. She wont' see professional help at all. I'm trying to help her think of a substitute to do when she wants to cut, but she wont listen. i'm trying to be patient, but i'm worried,what do I do? Please help

oh no :c that's no good at all!well i saw this post on grace's blog and i've been thinking for a bitbut i have to say, you're in a bit of a pickle D:

try and found out exactly why she's refusing professional help - i always find it quite interesting (though terribly sad) to explore the reasons of why people don't want to help themselves.maybe she's had a bad experience with a counsellor/therapist before? or maybe her parents deeply mistrust them, and have transferred that mistrust onto your girlfriend. who knows!

second, understand why she self-harms and feels like life isn't worth living anymoreyou may not be able to fix it? but even just understanding why is the first step to solving a problemi'm sure you've already told her many times (sorry, i'm making a lot of assumptions here!) but say that you love her so much, and that you cannot imagine life without her.why won't she listen to you? if she does care about you as a person, she should want to stay here in the land of the living, and understand that you only want the best for her

unfortunately though, people can only get help if they want it.if they don't want to get better, nothing you say or do will make a scrap of difference :c(running an advice blog, i should know!)

i've never self-harmed before or seriously thought about committing suicide so i don't really know her thought patterns, or can evern try and make sense of why she wants to do this,however you can try asking her to read these websites, they might help

www.metanoia.org/suicide

www.liveyourlifewell.org/go/live-your-life-well/help

and this website might be useful for you:

http://singletrackworld.com/forum/topic/clinical-depression-how-do-you-persuade-someone-to-get-help

you could also try telling her that you talked to me about it! she might be angry at first, but i'm sure she knows that you on;y want the best for her.try saying that i want her to seek professional help as well (i highly recommend it tbh) - maybe hearing it from an outsider might help? who knows

i hope that this has been somewhat useful to you, and that she is in a better place soon c:<3