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30

I started this page when I turned 15, to remember and commemorate my teenage years when I got older. But what was supposed to be temporary, ended up becoming a forever place where I could share my thoughts, my stories, and my experiences, freely.

I'm grateful to have kept coming back to this page and to have had something to look back on. Not only have I found healing by going through my old posts but I also found deeper awareness in myself and in others by reflecting on them. Haha, I swear, sometimes I think it works better than therapy.

As I walk into my 30's, I promise not to look too deep into the past, but to move & look forward with confidence. I will continue to write and share my stories here, but hope that I can also positively impact others through my experiences. I hope to achieve to be the strong individual my younger self would have been proud to see.

This year is about investing in me and I'm ready to show the world.

Here's the thirty. IlyDomi.

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28.5

I feel young but I’m an adult? That’s some wild shit.

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Happy 26.5 birthday Domi. I know it wasn’t all sunshine and rainbows for the past six months, but I am so proud of how resilient you’ve been and how you’ve managed to let positivity always win. As a reminder, here are some important lessons you should always practice & remember for it’s been bringing you a lot of goodness into your life.

Say your prayers and be thankful - even when you can’t see or feel it, just do it. I promise it will do wonders. / Practice self love - at the end of the day, it’s just you, your self, and your mind. Be kind to it. Be kind to yourself. / Let go and trust that everything happens at its own time. Don’t force anything or anyone. / Perfection isn’t always the answer. Learning how to accept flaws is. / Everyone is battling their own battles, respect it. The way you handle your battles are not necessarily what will help others. Encourage them to find their own way out but also acknowledge them that they are not alone in the battle. / Yes- you are the main character of your own story, but remember, you need other characters in your story to make a book. Let chapters begin and end when needed. The book won’t end, just the chapters. / Be yourself. Being you is the most attractive. / And choose to be happy. You can always choose to be sad or mad, so make happiness a priority when you’re feeling brave.

Proud of you little one. Keep growing!

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22

It’s my favorite number, but when it comes to identifying myself with it through age, something about it seems bitter-sweet. I ask God, the universe, and all the other higher beings to watch over me this year as I reach a new chapter in my life. I wish for happiness and friendships that will follow me into my adult life as I graduate from UC Davis this year. I pray that I continue to find motivation so that I can strive for the better and never stop doubting my capabilities/ achievements. I hope for more wisdom, good memories, and heart filled with love. I ask that my passions for singing grows into something wonderful where it could possibly touch the heart of those who are lost or in need of cheers.

This year, I ask for all of this because 21 was hectic and scary. Hopefully 22 is a more humbling experience where it is filled with more growth and strength from the skills and lessons I have learned last year. To 22 more. Happy birthday Dominique. You are loved. 

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29

Trust yourself and move with confidence. This is the year to make moves. You already know what you know, now apply.

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28

You made it. 27 was an amazing year for you and I think you really hit what you’ve wished for during 2022. This year, I ask that you be gentle with yourself while striving for more. Rest. Be healthy. Practice wellness. But… still have fun when you can.

Take risks. Don’t be so scared and hold yourself back. You’ve got one life, live a little. Choose you. Don’t think about what others might think. It’s just you and only you! Choose happiness. Choose what brings you peace. Practice making better boundaries. And allow yourself to slow down and move at a pace that makes the most sense to you. You don’t need to apologize for how you feel and you hold your ground with confidence.

It’s going to be another great year. Let’s strive for greatness! 28, I’m ready for you!

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27.5

Last year was tough. Really, really tough... and then you entered your 27th year - promising yourself that you’ll live life fully and love yourself, for yourself - and gurl, you have been succeeding. You have kept true to your word and kept looking forward despite challenges falling right into your lap. You’ve kept your chin up and so beautifully too!

Don’t get me wrong. My latter 20s is still confusing and I’m afraid I’ll always feel lost... Heck, I’m not even sure what the heck I’m doing with my life, but the process of “becoming” has been extremely eye opening. The willingness to learn has taught me and widen my understanding of the world. I am unlearning the toxicity I’ve learn throughout my life time, and re-learning the goodness of how to better myself. It has not, and most likely will never, be an easy process to let go and relearn, but it has been extremely humbling and enriching. 

27 is busy, but its busy by choice. 27 is tiring, but its tiring by choice. 27 is fun, but its fun by choice. It’s never been forced or coerced, which makes every moment rewarding & honorable.

Domi, keep an open mind. Keep challenging yourself. Keep choosing to be happy. Take your time when it comes to yourself. Let go of things that don’t bring value into your life. Lean on your friends for support. Be the support your friends need as well. Have courage and walk through the process, never around. 

Beautiful things take time. You are blooming Dom. Enjoy the process. Enjoy the becoming. Enjoy who you are. Enjoy the happiness. 

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27

Happy Birthday Domi! Are you ready to start another chapter in your life? I know the unknown can be scary, but trust that everything will play out the way it’s supposed to be. Just ride the ride, gain what you feel is good, and leave things that are of no help to you. I know that you pictured your 27th year much different than how you pictured it as a child. But make every moment of it a bold one, a good one, and a happy one. Your past self is already so proud of the newer and cooler you, don’t let anything else tell you otherwise. 

Don’t let your flames die out even when it’s pouring rain. Grow, but most importantly, grow with the people that will help you grow spiritually, emotionally, mentally, and physically. Be brave, be courageous, and try some new things this year. Step outside of the house. Stop being such a homebody. You are one of the most social being in this world, don’t hide that from the world. Show them the potential you hold. Take a little risk, go on a little journey. I’m rooting for you girlfriend! Happy Birthday. Let’s make this a fantastic year.