New plan.
We’re thinking of starting up a new business together, but I’ve been stressing over it cuz it would probably mean that it would delay the marriage/wedding.
So we came up with a new plan.
Start the business first (cuz we need to target the summer - potentially highest grossing months), 혼인신고 and move in together when his lease ends, and then once the business is up and running, we’ll (i’ll) have time to plan a beautiful fall wedding...
My parents will likely be okay with it - they finally met him cuz he came on a family trip with us and met the whole family + cousins/aunts/uncles, plus I’ve been building him up for a while.. planting good stories of him here and there.
It’s not what I envisioned but I’m ok with it.. marriage and weddings seem so surreal to me (and him, of course), but living together first will help us both ease into it
Then there’s his mom...
She’s fine with the business but wants him to resign his lease and wait another year so we don’t rush into things..
“결혼은 제대로 해야지”
She didn’t even want him coming to 문막...
I do understand where his mom’s coming from.. her son wasn’t even thinking about marriage a year ago, and now, all of a sudden, seemingly out of the blue, her son wants to get married.. 여우한테 홀렸다고 생각하시겠지.. plus, he has a bad track record when it comes to girlfriends, and since I’m older, she probably thinks he’s rushing the marriage for me..
Which, 그런 면도 없지 않아 있긴 하지..
But shoot... 그렇게 치면 I would’ve wanted a guy that was financially stable enough that I didn’t have to work...
Doesn’t matter...
He’s worth it to me.
Plus, he’s not one to let his mom change what he thinks or does..
But it probably does affect him a little...
It’s gonna be hard to win over his mom, but I know I can do it... It just sucks that I have to stress over it and who knows how long it’ll take?
어딜가도 난 항상 1등 며느리감이라고 하는데...
Sigh
Maybe if she had met me first as one of his friends, then it wouldn’t be like this... but what can I do...
This sucks :(
Or maybe it can be a good thing cuz the further she pushes me away and 반대해’s, he’ll come to my family...
:)
Silver lining?
