I'm sorry seeing all the wildly bigoted stuff about trans guys on this site is getting to you :( if you need to leave for your own sake, please do, but me and lots of other tboys will miss you <3 it's so comforting to see another trans man so in charge of and in love with his body, and I'm sorry that transphobes on this website are making you want to leave
Thank you.
I’m “old” and have been out for a long time and have dealt with much worse transphobia in the real world, so it’s hard for things to get to me. But some of the shit I see on here just wears on me over time. Especially seeing folks I respect and value engage or silently support certain behaviors or even straight up enable malgendering and things of that nature.
I block incredibly liberally to maintain my sanity, but sadly tumblr’s block function doesn’t work nearly as well as I wish it did.
I’ve had this blog for a long time now, over ten years. Closer to twelve now I think. I’m likely not going anywhere, but I have been spending less and less time on this site in between posting.
It does make me smile knowing I’ve been able to represent, on some small level, trans mascs and trans men in this community.
I’ve said it before, but I remember when I started and I was one of maybe two trans folks in the feedism community on here that I knew of. It feels like there are many more of us now, trans masc and trans fem and every trans facet in between, and that makes me happy. Regardless of if I ever leave some day, I’m happy to have been a part of that on the some level and I’m happy that I’ve been able to help other folks embrace their own bodies and desires.















