I'm gonna need some of y'all to understand that you do not get to decide that your (or your kid's) communicable illness is "no big deal" and just not warn people about it before socializing with them. Especially when they've explicitly asked you to do so.
You do not necessarily know what someone is dealing with. They may have an immune or respiratory condition. They may live with or care for someone with a compromised immune system. They may have an important event coming up. They may just not feel like having the flu this week and that's their right. You do not get to make that choice for them and it's beyond disrespectful to expose others because you don't feel like rescheduling or being inconvenienced.
So tired of showing up places and having someone cheerily announce "Oh don't worry about my cough; I'm just getting over a cold!" or "Don't feel bad if Junior isn't in a great mood; he had gastro a few days ago!" It's just selfish, inconsiderate, and rude.















