What life lesson did you learn the hard way? {Hold yourself to higher standards and live accordingly} [♥]On Friendship: I used to be very introverted and had a closed group of friends. They were very popular and I felt privileged to hang out with them. But I was also picked on the most. When meeting strangers, my "friends" would make lame comments about me so that it would seem that they are very cool and that they are doing me a favor for hanging out with me. Every time I started working on myself, on my goals, on expressing my dreams and the hard work I put in everyday they would feel threatened and made sure to do something about it to put me down again. My life changed immensely once I ditched them and basically started again from zero. Be around people that care about you and where you can provide two way growth [♥]On Love: I gnoring the little things that bother you will add up in the end. When the bubble bursts you realize you hate each other so much and you don't even realize why anymore. But you are also so invested that it breaks you in half not having that person in your life ever again. Sex is great. Communication and vulnerability are better. Trust is key. If that is not present then you are just making each other miserable. Move on. Learn to love yourself again. And start over wiser. [♥]On Confidence: I Used to be very shy. I can't tell you how many opportunities I have missed because I was afraid of "asking" or "upsetting". I always thought if I just show up it will be enough. Opportunity will find me. That is not true. Stop waiting for stuff to happen and make it happen. Ask that girl out, ask for that raise, apply for that job, create that project you always wanted, go on that trip you always wanted, speak when you believe you have something to say, make that phone call. You will get slammed back down more than you could handle sometimes, but it will also help you reach places you never thought possible. [♥] rest in comment.... #healthyrecepie #happysoul #happysoul #happylife❤️ #happyweekend💕 #happiness #happybbaby #Harmony @betterlifenow80 @kat91valerio @aizanbaghadiya @pooja.singh_50 @aizanbaghadiya @josias.lopes.58 @co.llins9360 @davidw https://www.instagram.com/p/CJKptk5jNjQ/?igshid=1xgmtxl8ipu2c
