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[ashthedem0n]

something lfgau perhaps for the art rq pleaseeeee :3333333

Finallyyyy finish it TwT sorry if it's shit lost motivation to do anything haft away thru but I kept pushing TuT

My boy has some issues with the forest <33

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[wordsoftheheartandsoul]

It seems like everyone loves you when you don't know who you are. When you don't defend yourself or rock the boat because you fear the reactions or rejection of others more than the impact that suppressing emotions and diluting your truth will bring. The wrong people will love it when you seek to prove and please them but aligned people will love you and not want you to needlessly punish and invalidate yourself.

Morgan Richard Olivier - the healing you hear

[amioverreactingofficial]

Am I overreacting if I want to break up with my girlfriend for saying she no longer loves me sexually?

For context: I 20 F and my girlfriend 20 F have been dating for almost 2 years id say our sex life is good. So far there’s been zero problems. I usually give because I’m not big on receiving. However, the other night we finished business as usual and were about to go to sleep when she suddenly turns to me and says “I don’t think I love you anymore sexually and it just clicked to me while we were doing it. I’ve been thinking about this for awhile.” Obviously I was deeply upset by this because it came out of nowhere. I admit I cried a little bit but I tried not to let her see because I didn’t want her to change her mind just because I was upset. I told her that I wasn’t sure if I wanted to continue the relationship out of fear that she might just decide she no longer loves me period. I asked if there was another person and she said no she swears by it but I’m just not sure. She told me she still loves me and wants to be with me but I’m just not sure. My thoughts are if you can’t love all of me how can you say you love me? I’m now battling between my own morals and my love that I have in my heart for her. I truly love this girl like no other person and I’m not sure if this should be my tie breaker. It just seems odd.

UPDATE: so I should’ve clarified a few things before I posted this because I didn’t think so many people would find this but my girlfriend takes mood stabilizers and without them certain feelings or routines change when her medication schedule is a little wonky as of right now we’re waiting to refill her prescription. We had a nice long talk about things and she said that it’s just because she feels guilty after every time. However, she’s been like that even with past relationships. She says she still wants to continue to have a sexual life together she’s just weary because of the guilt she feels once it’s all said and done. I’m still unsure of what to do. It’s highly possible I will just end up leaving her for my own good but since we live together it will take some time. I appreciate everyone for their feedback this really helped me a lot and opened my eyes.

Reddit consensus: NOT OVERREACTING (NOR) (100% confidence)

Top comment: “Alright. I'll try & be the devil. NoR, however. Have you had a genuine conversation beyond her initial brick she threw at your emotions, not that it shouldn't be obvious to tell you in a way nicer way?

Because genuinely, it could be a "I feel like we've fallen of compatibility" or "I want to try new things in the bedroom sexually" or "I'm not enjoying our sexlife anymore, it's become boring, we don't try new things".

Legit. Have that conversation first, I know it hurt to hear, you should probably tell her, "Yeah that was a dogshit way to say it, I appreciate the comm, could explain or atleast elaborate so it doesn't just feel like a brick through my emotional window.".

Still, has that happened?”

Notable comment: “Wtf NOR

Definitely break up. Sex shouldn’t be the main focus of your relationship but it does 100% matter.

If you aren’t sexually attracted to your partner, it will not work long term. She hasn’t left yet because a better looking man hasn’t approached her yet.

Shitty asf to say it like that, but she did do you the service of coming right out and telling you, gotta give her that.

Initiate relationship termination sequence now.”

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Originally shared by FerretNormal6145 on r/AmIOverreacting on July 12th, 2026 at 7:56 PM UTC. Credit to u/BrandedScrub and u/_betterthangreat_ for the quoted comments.

[cafephan]

Waking up to an ao3 email from cafephan, best way to start the day <333

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hope you liked the new fic <33