Thanks for all the kind replies. I really appreciate it. Truly.
paigenotblank replied to your post “I need some advice. We have a 14 year old Border Collie with extreme...”
I'm sorry. Having to euthanize a pet is one of the hardest decisions we as pet owners have to make. I wish that they could all go peacefully in their sleep, but unfortunately that doesn't always happen. I know how you're feeling, but please don't feel guilty. (I know easier said than done). It's way harder when it's only one aspect of their lives that are affected, but mobility is a huge one, esp. for big dogs. I have a 16 y.o. dog that's in a similar boat. Best wishes!
Much easier said than done! I hope your dog remains healthy as can be for as long as possible. <3<3
kairi-sea replied to your post “I need some advice. We have a 14 year old Border Collie with extreme...”
Sadly putting your pupper down may be one of the best options for her. BUT before you chose that option, have you tried giving her glucosamine tablets to help? We used to give those to our black lab and it seemed to help. I don't wanna see your pupper get put down but I don't wanna see them in pain or sad. We had to put one of our dogs down and it was the hardest thing to do, he was happy but the tumor got too big and he couldn't pee anymore :/ your pup is in my prayers
We haven’t tried glucosamine, I’ll bring it up with the vet, thanks for the tip. Tumors are horrible. We had to put two other dogs down because of tumors. <3<3
crazymaryt replied to your post “I need some advice. We have a 14 year old Border Collie with extreme...”
This sounds like what happened with our 12 yrs border collie mix. She became jaundiced and couldn't move her back legs. She was semi-house broken and would sleep in the garage most of the time but when she couldn't move well she started going to the bathroom on herself and blankets. Which she had never done. At that point she was barely eating. The vet suggested euthanasia and we felt it was the best thing for her. It about killed me but I think it was the best thing for
crazymaryt replied to your post “I need some advice. We have a 14 year old Border Collie with extreme...”
her when she got in the car so we could take her to the vet I think she knew. This probably didn't help at all but I understand fully what you are going through.
Poor puppy! Luckily our girl can still make it outside, she just can’t support herself well when going. Soon I know she won’t be able to at all. Sorry about your puppers :(.
pir8grl replied to your post “I need some advice. We have a 14 year old Border Collie with extreme...”
OK, this sucks. I've been there and it just sucks, but yes, you do need to have this conversation with your vet. Border collies are very active by nature, so what you're saying is that she can't do the things that make her happy any more. You also need to consider that you can get seriously hurt trying to pick up a dog that size, and that if she becomes incontinent, it's a huge mess. Also, 14 is old for a big dog. It may just be time to treat her to a really good me
pir8grl replied to your post “I need some advice. We have a 14 year old Border Collie with extreme...”
al, some quality cuddles, and then say goodbye. I am SO sorry. {{{huggles}}}
She’s always had health problems so to be honest I’m surprised she’s made it to 14. Border Collies are extremely active and that’s why I think her immobility is especially tough for her. She can’t do anything. It’s so sad and frustrating all around. <3<3
here-there-or-anywhere replied to your post “I need some advice. We have a 14 year old Border Collie with extreme...”
this reminds me of the time right before my family decided to euthanize our last dog, about 4 years ago. it was tough, but like your dog, he could barely walk anymore but was otherwise ok. We eventually decided to no longer prolong his pain.
It really sucks when they are fine but there’s just that one thing showing their age and pain. :(
camasy replied to your post “I need some advice. We have a 14 year old Border Collie with extreme...”
Hi, I'm so sorry to hear that. I lost one of my dogs this Summer. He was 14, had a good life with lots of fun, sunbathing in der garden, peting his belly and so on. I'm sure, you just want the best for your Dog. No pain, good health. Now you have to ask yourself, is your dog still having a good Life? Is this the Life, you want for him? And do you keep him for you, 'cause you can't let him go. Are you selfish, or do you still want the best for your Dog. Feel huged!
Sorry about your dog but it does sound like he had a good life. Feeling selfish has gone both ways with me. I feel selfish because I want her to stay around but I also feel like it’s selfish too put her down because she’s so difficult to take care of now. Even if it’s the best thing for her I’m going to feel guilty and selfish either way. I guess there’s no getting around that.
