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Hi! I just finished Oceans Blue and I love your writing so much. Take your time and I look forward to the next chapter.
Oh thank you! I’m glad you enjoyed it! :D the next chapter will most likely be out in December, once I get all of my uni stuff out of the way!
Fuzzy is a beautiful beantoed yogurt loving toothy demon. He is his own entity and I also am A huge fan of Kurt/Nightcrawler.
Aaw, that’s a very nice description of Fuzzy. Thank you for your kindness! I’m getting many of these reassuring messages and I’m glad about them <3I’m also a big fan of Kurt/Nightcrawler. He helped me a lot when I was 19-23 and my whole life was full of changes and old troubles.
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39. Reflecting on all of your experiences, what advice would you give to a young couple? Talk to each other. Don’t assume you know what the other person is thinking. Don’t assume they should know what you’re thinking.
Realize you will hurt each other unintentionally. Remember that it’s very unlikely they’re doing something with the intent of hurting you--and let them know when they have. But do it kindly. Saying “I know this isn’t what you meant, but when you said you didn’t care what we did, it made me feel like you didn’t care about me. Can we figure out a different way to decide what to do next time?” works so much better than bottling it up and then yelling at them for not giving a rat’s ass about you--when it turns out they were trying to let you decide because they wanted to be sure you got to do the thing you wanted to most.
Find out your partner’s love language. What makes them feel special, feel like you care about them? Is it time spent alone together? Is it small surprise presents? Is it hearing that you love them? Find out, and make the effort to do it. Let them know yours, because they shouldn’t have to guess.
Find out what’s important to them--and don’t expect to change it. If they say they never, ever want kids? Believe them. And if you really, really do? Realize it might be a deal breaker and while that sucks, it’s better than bringing kids into a relationship where you don’t respect each other’s wishes.
Ignore movies, ignore TV, ignore books. Forget all the parts of society that say if you’re really in love everything will work out. Remember they’re just another person, and that they are on your side, not fighting against you in some invisible war for nonexistent points. Forget all crap.
And basically just talk to each other.
From the S/O asks
Some kind of Harpy or Tengu. Birdie monster
fun fact: i know next to nothing about birds and have very little exposure bc my mom was petrified of them. but i do love me some crows and ravens. birb life would be Wild.
Dear herosaveme ;)
you’re a dork and a good friend and i enjoy talking with you and playing with you due to aforementioned being a dork.
Your opinion on Roman
Roman is creativity, the burning, endless, overwhelming urge to bring ideas to life–and the crushing, inevitable disappointment when they aren’t what you wanted them to be.
Roman is fire, passion blazing so fiercely it consumes every other thing in its path–and leaves cold emptiness in its wake when it inevitably burns out.
Roman is dreams, twisting turns of incoherent fantasy, nightmares and ambitions tangled together into a mystifying mess of hope and terror.
Roman is a knight in shining armor, ready to stand firm and face down any threat–and a spoiled child angry when he doesn’t get his way.
Roman is insecurity and fear masked with arrogance and pride. Roman is towering confidence and blackest self-doubt. Roman is a study in contrasts, a consummate actor playing the role of a noble, honorable prince who is beloved by all--in order to hide the fact that he hates himself.
With him life is never dull, often exhausting, sometimes heartbreaking, but always worth it. Without him, color and meaning and everything that make life worth living slip away into a gray fog of mere existence.
And he’s somehow snuck in and become my second favorite character.
Hi youre amazing
I am amazingly sick!!
(seriously, thank you sweetie, you are awesome)
