☯️The Divine template☯️ Is limitless possibility. So when we ask ‘what’s is right for me?’ We are asking for a limitation to be imposed. I would rather ask, ‘what am I choosing now?’ And explore that as a learning process. I was speaking to a friend recently about relationship templates imposed by our upbringing and how they have resulted in disharmonious relationships lasting longer than they needed to, or created issues in new relationships due to attachment and abandonment issues. . I have seen quite a few ads lately for courses on ‘attachment styles’ in relationships, as though this is a solution to our approach to relationships. Apparently there is ‘healthy attachment’ and ‘unhealthy attachment’. I can’t help but see this approach as a management of the symptoms of attachment. . Attachment is a physical survival mechanism for babies and defenceless children. Is it still relevant as adults? Or can we approach relationships through the practice of real connection? Teaching our children about connection rather than reinforcing attachment in the relationship dynamic could really change this world. . Non-attachment is not a state of being ‘detached’, emotionless and uncaring. In order to practice non-attachment effectively for the good of all, we must start from a place of deep self-love and acceptance. From this we can choose to deepen connections with those around us. Then commitment really means something because we are choosing it not because we need it, but because we want it. There is then no need for us to experience the suffering that comes when we don’t achieve the outcomes we are so attached to. . Can you desire something, work towards it, and yet hold it as lightly as a feather in the palm of your hand? . If you want to explore your inner balance with me, my next workshop is this coming Sunday at @feelhotyoga Watford. I hope to see you there 😊🙏🏽💕 #shashaspiritledlife #feelhotyoga #yogaherts #hertsyogis #beherenow #nonattachment #reallovepractice #belove #yogaworkshop #loveyourselffirst #workinprogress https://www.instagram.com/p/B5Basq-nX15/?igshid=59jxe8fzxixb