I read your post about okcupid... I felt the same way you feel about it, like embarrassed and lame. I signed up when I was 18 after not having a boyfriend like ever, and the sad part is it got me nowhere, still no boyfriend... I am 19 now:/ Idk how old you are or what other aged guys are like, but all I got out of it was a few fooling around sessions and meeting tons of assholes. Everything feels too forced when you meet guys, like you are both expected to connect with eachother, it isn't a natural connection. Idk why I felt like giving you my dating history haha, this was originally meant to say that you shouldn't be ashamed of signing up, because.... it ain't shit:P Be confident with yourself and you'll be fine:)
Thanks for the tips... Yeah, that's how I feel about it. It's not organic so how could you make real connections. It forces you to be vain, when in reality someone's personality could totally sell you. Me personally, I really look for how someone thinks. Although thinking is a dying past time, that alone obviously says sooo much about someone. I have no problem attracting men, but men nowadays don't seem to want a lady. I blame reality TV, and our "Basketball Wives" driven media for glamorizing CHICKEN HEADS, WHORES, SKANKS, SKEEZERS, whatever you like to call them... Sorry to go on, and on... But the shit is so damn frustrating!