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[whothehelcares]

Sis please stop begging for reblogs and likes on your every single post. Your captions are so unnecessarily long you're the only art blog I will not reblog because of the begging just fyi

Explain to me how it’s begging though?

It’s just asking someone if they like it to reblog it so that it can gain more traction and then my blog might gain that little bit more traffic? Things that help small and beginning artists like me, the other part is asking people not to repost my work.

If you want to support me and my work, you would reblog my stuff. It takes only a few second, and it goes a long way for any artist.

I don’t understand why it’s so harmful to you personally that you feel the need to come into my inbox on anon to notify me that you don’t like it, and that’s why you won’t reblog my stuff. If you’re that petty and nasty about people’s captions that you won’t support their work because of them, I don’t want your reblogs. You can shove ‘em up where the sun don’t shine “sis”.

What’s even more hilarious is that I haven’t posted anything in weeks. FYI my captions are gonna stay as they are, die mad about it.

[whothehelcares]

Im so mad that boobs that are large are placed on women that are designed to be sexy. You know what I mean, though? It perpetuates this idea that women who have large breasts are sexually available when 1) it's anatomical and they have no control over their how their own body grows, 2) it completely negates the importance of consent (if she looks like a """"slut/whore/seductress"""" she wants me) and 3) denies a woman's sexuality by making her sexy for others consumption.

It does bother me greatly that big boobs are associated with sexiness, and you’re so right it does perpetuate the idea that we’re sexually available (a.ka. come harass us because we have big boobs and that clearly means we wanna suck your dick xoxoxox ) 

But I do disagree that its because it’s placed on women who are designed to be ‘sexy’, mostly because I believe ‘sexiness’ is a concept. What I mean is, sexiness is down to the individual. For me when I feel sexy I feel powerful and desirable; but all women can feel like that its not simply limited to women with big boobs. 

But I find there’s a huge difference in being sexy and being sexualised. To me being sexualised takes the power away from you because you are then objectified. But this can happen to any woman no matter her body type. But in my experience it happens regularly to women who are well endowed because the patriarchy have created this disgusting rape culture in which they see women as an object for them to receive sexual gratification from and nothing more.

So in regards to placing larger breasts on female characters it’s not because they’re sexy or a seductress and it doesn’t make them any less of a strong female character, which is why I want to ditch this sudden idea that big boobs are bad and disgusting on women because they’re sexualised by men and instead want people to consider tackling the rape culture ideal that’s so deeply ingrained in such things, instead of belittling women with big boobs because they’re associated witha disgusting concept in which they have no control over . 

All in all we can pretty much chalk down the association of large breasts and sexualisation to over entitled heterosexual men. 

Sorry it was a bit long! But if you need me to explain any of my points further just send another ask! 

[whothehelcares]

I mean like why are we stereotyping men lmao. If you thing that we're all like that you're just wrong 👀

“The post is about when women go make up shopping with masculinity obsessed straight men.”

‘All men’ where?

[whothehelcares]

ok...we fucking get it ; you have big tits jfc.

Okay no at first I wasn’t gonna answer this, but for some unknown reason you didn’t get ignored. Mostly because you seem to be an idiot who can’t read. I mentioned I have them once. Once in order to assist my argument and give people a better understanding as to why their actions were upsetting. Other than that I referred to women with bigger breasts as a whole. Also you’re you like 3-4 days late??? Go home???

I was extremely nervous about posting information such as this but I did it for a bigger cause, which was to get people in this community to stop what they were doing and think about it. Even if just for a second.

So take your dumb ass anons out of here and learn to read before commenting. You’re either mad you don’t have big tits or mad because you got called out on your bullshit.

[whothehelcares]

I believe you've currently plateaued in Your artwork where you're drawing in your comfort zone and that's totally okay. If you'd like to see improvement, consider using photo references or doing studies for anatomy, light, color, backgrounds, etc. Your art is very cute and very clean and by studying from real life, your stylization will get more defined and more translatable for the general audience. Cheers!

Thank you so much for that feedback! I’ll definitely take it on board and try it! I struggle the most with backgrounds and lighting to be honest so I need much more practice on that! 

Thank you again! 

[whothehelcares]

You should be charging way more for commissions!!!! You’re being too generous

Awhh I’m flattered you think that, I just don’t feel like they’re good enough to charge too much for! Also I’d want my work to remain affordable for people.

[whothehelcares]

Can I be honest? I would Love if you art becomes the new Cutesy Medusa icon. Not only because the other one is kinda ugly, but also because your art is amazin!

Awhhh thank you! That’s so so sweet! I really don’t expect them to use it because I’m not that advanced in art yet to be honest but I’m honestly so flattered that people think it’s good enough to be in game in the first place and it’s really motivating me to do some more in the future. 💕💕

[whothehelcares]

I stared at the first line of your 300 Follower Giveaway post and could not wrap my head around "how is she going to give away 300 followers???" It took me a full minute...

Hahaha!