Sep 11, 2025
therapist asked me a very thin variation of the same question probably five times and i repeated myself in creative ways a couple times before i finally got the nerve to ask if there was a reason for that and she said it’s ’to see if a question triggers something important i need to know’ and i’m like hm. don’t like.
#also like#you keep asking me what’s going on with my family i already said i don’t really know#???#haven’t talked to anyone in depth in a couple weeks so i just know what i heard last#and it’s pretty much the same as always#so i don’t really know what to say#or why that matters#don’t get me wrong i’d rather talk about my family than my relationship#but that’s mostly because feedback about my family is idk#more useful??#i don’t know man#i know therapy is supposed to be building healthy brain stuff but it SHORE don’t feel like it#i feel like i’m going round in circles#i don’t really get helpful feedback with family stuff either#but with relationships i’m DEFINITELY not getting any helpful feedback#just vague disapproving vibes and constantly asking how i’m gonna fix it#bro i CAN’T i’m not two people#maybe there’s some implication i should demand something but i don’t really think that’s gonna do anything#and i don’t feel like tearing up my peaceful day to day for it sorry! not sorry idk what to think!#hghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
