....I gotta ask, are you making shitposts about me and my fic instead of messaging me or commenting that you didn't like my comment and found it thoughtless/hurtful? I am sorry if me saying I found most of the other fic in this fandom "vanilla" hurt your feelings, that was not my intent since vanilla isn't bad. In real life I play very hard, but you're right that it's not an excuse for me to go shaming on other people. Still, you could have handled this better, especially by not misgendering me.
Yes, it was about your fic.
My feelings weren’t hurt, so much as I thought it classless to insult other fic in your author’s note.
I had no idea you were also on tumblr when I made a post about it, if I’d known I would never have referenced my personal gripe here in an arena where you would likely have seen it.
I’m sorry for that, I have no interest in making anyone feel bad for the small things that might bother me, rather inconsequentially at the end of the day. I was just moaning about something I considered small, where I thought there would be no impact from doing so.
And I’m also unequivocally sorry to have had any part in misgendering you, it didn’t even occur to me to check if the anon that sent me the message was using the correct pronouns to reference you.
I certainly could have handled this better and I am sorry.











