Being a sex-positive Ace is the hardest thing to explain to people. Like “yea I hate sex, and it’s gross, and weird, and awkward and just ew… But also there’s times where I don’t mind having sex with my person to make her happy and in that moment it’s not gross and weird and awkward….I just don’t wanna have sex….but it’s ok if I do….oh you’re confused? Yea most people are at this point.”
















