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My First Time
In life I began to feel really sorry for myself. Past experiences taught me that men bought only pain, frustration, suffering and a sense of time dragging. My dad left. My ex cheated. All before the age of 21. The type of pain I experienced due to this situation is the type of pain that would make you wish you’d die or at least be terminally ill so that you could focus on something else. On…
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I Was Born Terrified
I Was Born Terrified
I know every inch of fear, from head to toe. I’ve been a frightened person my entire life. I was born terrified. I think. I’m not exaggerating; you can ask anyone in my family, and they’ll confirm that, yes, I was an exceptionally freaked out child. My earliest memories are of fear, as are pretty much all the memories that come after my earlier memories. But here’s how I’ve learned to deal with…
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Why Is It So Hard To Mind Your Own Business?
Why Is It So Hard To Mind Your Own Business?
This is a question that has plagued my mind for months now. It is so common for us to have conversations about other people and their circumstances, to the extent where it can almost be described as a trait that is ingrained in us humans. When friends tell us about their problems and ask for advice, we feel the need to help them. We love them, and we hate to see them hurt. Even when they don’t…
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Don't Take Shit Personally
Don’t Take Shit Personally
This is not going to be a popular post. But it needs to be said. I know it is quite common nowadays to fall victim to cyber bullying especially for those people who are actually making movements in their lives and others just tend to hate. (secretly wishing they were them). Wait I am getting to the point now. So I was having dinner the other day with my husband and a friend and she had just…
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Stop Talking Shit
What Is Your Truth? Not the shit you’ve been told. Not the shit you read. Your actual truth? My truth is not your truth. And that’s cool. So what do you believe? What do you believe about God? What do you believe about Sex? What do you believe about Family? What do YOU care about? Not what you think you’re supposed to care about. What do you truly care about? I can lie and say I care about…
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Identifying And Dealing With Fake People
Identifying And Dealing With Fake People
For a while, I have been toiling with how I could address this topic, in the right way because I am not one to bring negativity on this blog. And finally last night it hit me….I just have to be straight. Say it as it is. Something I am very used to doing in this little space I call home I was inspired to write this post following an experience my sister went through just recently (long story…
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How Do You Feel?
How Do You Feel?
My soul is made of words. All the words I never spoke. All the words I regret I ever spoke. All the words I never got a chance to write. All the words I could have written better. The words that got lost inside my head, never to be retrieved. I write because I can rarely make myself understood. I struggle to find the right words. Maybe I never find them, because I’m afraid the person I’m telling…
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The MOST Honest Q&A Ever!
The MOST Honest Q&A Ever!
It takes time to tell the full story. And I don’t ever want Asklychee to be about me, as such, rather more about my experiences. But I have been asked a number of questions here and there, which to be honest if I answered individually would just take too much time. Plus a lot of these questions can be quite generic and repetitive. So I thought I would dedicate a post answering questions I know…
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