have toxic relationships with fandoms. more precisely. fandoms and i are in a toxic relationship that very much includes stockholm syndrome.
in general, fandoms split into two types for me: either i don’t care at all, or have an insane hyperfixation in the style of writing any theory + looking at all the art [downloaded weibo and douyin for a rareship :] + reading every single analysis.
so here’s the awful part... ahm.. don’t remember a time when i liked the most popular pairing. but i do remember that whenever i liked a character from the most popular pairing, i hated that pairing intensely… and that’s not hard to remember, because it happens every single time [clown emoji].
the good thing is that it seems the peak of literal physical rejection of a ship was reached with arcane and, maybe, hopefully, will never happen again. amen. †
but… you know, i don’t like being a hater, because everyone seems to hate haters [well, everyone except me. [ have resting bitch face + 3 hours of electricity out of 24 + i… my circle of strongest social online bonds is basically “it’s ugly >> i don’t like it either.” || hate is ma save space lul.. pathetic [pathetic is a good band btw]]
this is what i’m getting at..... please please <begging on my knees /yewww it was too much, you freak/>
don’t touch haters, !!!if they’re not personally doing/saying anything to you or neytral people!!! it’s hard for them too. f@ck. with any interaction with the content they want to see, that brings him comfort and joy [and sometimes it is the only source of escapistic comfort and joy in their life], they also see content they very, very much do not want to see. and there is not much they can do about it.. trust me.
//ps. if we are talking about the haters, who would interact with you first.. ~~ feel free to destroy them :) i support this// meow.