Jameela Jamil and why she’s great
One of my favorite things about Jameela Jamil and the i weigh movement is that it doesn’t force you to accept the parts of you that you don’t like.
Don’t get me wrong, for many people the body positivity movement is incredibly helpful and uplifting. But, a lot of the rhetoric surrounding it involves saying that EVERY feature, no matter what, is beautiful.
But this can actually be just as damaging.
I had bad acne as a teen. It wasn’t beautiful. I never thought it was. No amount of people telling me that the zits and blisters covering my face were all beautiful made me ever believe they were. I hated having acne. I couldn’t believe it was beautiful, and a lot of that rhetoric saying that it was beautiful hurt me. It invalidated the negative feelings I had towards my skin, and instead filled me with empty promises that it was beautiful. Because to me, it just simply wasn’t.
I weigh and Jameela Jamil have a completely different philosophy. Their philosophy is that you don’t have to make yourself think your ‘flaws’ are beautiful. They say you shouldn’t even factor your body into your self worth. Not matter if I thought my acne was beautiful or ugly, Jameela Jamil would say that it has nothing to do with my worth as a person. The same goes for my height, my weight, etc. I don’t have to make myself think my physical flaws are beautiful, I just have to not think about them at all.
Because any part of your body, no matter what it looks like, should not affect your self worth.
And for people like me, this is incredibly freeing. I don’t have to convince myself that acne is beautiful. I just have to ignore it, and spend more time thinking about the things that do give me worth as a person.
Now, this philosophy isn’t for everyone. Some people are able to find beauty in all of their physical features, and that’s amazing for them. But for the ones who can’t do that, I Weigh and Jameela Jamil have an alternative way.