#identity update

[electaaaaa]

Oh yeah self identity update for those curious

AroAce Lesbian (I’ll elaborate to those who ask questions with good intentions/ out of genuine curiosity)

and also El is Short for Electa

Any pronouns but they/them is preferred in most situations

@lavender-flowergarden @mix-masterr @saferns @amingethia @wisteriaalu @everyone else who is my mutual but I’m too tired to type but can’t remember the full irl off the top of my head still love you all <3

[bitch-spectrum]

Boo! Identity Update! I'm also being a mean queer!

So, if anyone seeing this didn't know, My name used to be Miller but I was disowned by the family member who gave me that family name so..... I decided I didn't want to keep it.

I'm going by Michelangelo or just Mica for short now.

I used to identify as a transmasc nonbinary guy but I've found out recently some things about myself and I'm bored of that now.

I found out that I have an intersex condition. One of my alters was told a little while ago and just forgot to make it public within the system.

Before finding out I had been reconnecting with my femininity. While I want to medically transition, I no longer think of myself as just transmasc so I'm dropping the label.

I liked nonbinary as it's a functional umbrella term but honestly? I think I'm going to also label myself as a hermaphrodite.

With everything going on in my country right now I could honestly give less shits about using language that doesn't hurt your precious feelings so if me saying hermaphrodite scares you, suck it up butter cup. I'm here and I'm a dykefag. Cope.

I feel like I'm both a girl that grew into a guy and a guy that grew into a girl while being neither at the same time. I don't really want to use bigender or boygirl or androgynous because, sure they sound nice and the flags are pretty, but I want a label for myself that makes people feel a little uncomfortable at first. Both in and out of my community.

I sort of want these sanitized kids who are like "ALL GENDERS ARE VALID" to REALLY think about what they're saying. Do they actually believe that and not feel threatened by me reclaiming this word for myself or are they actually lying to themselves about what they stand for?

I want cis people who are in the LGBT+ community be a little squicked at first while they get used to it because god knows cis people dont get a single say in how I chose to label my identity.

I want allys and people who aren't in the community to look at this identity and feel awkward or uncomfortable.

I want to weed out people that the community shouldn't trust by how I'm treated for a label I'm reclaiming.

I'm no longer pansexual either. The flag is still cute as hell IMO but now I'm identifying with just being sexually queer. My attraction to anyone feels like male attraction, female attraction, and Other attraction all at the same time.

When I'm with a man I feel like a gay man, a straight woman, and an nbspec person being attracted all at the same time, for example.

Same thing for women and nonbinary people.

Gender isn't a factor in my attraction because I feel homosexual in the relationship regardless; its queer.

I'm queer and I want to be unapologetically queer because of the genocide going on in my country right now. I want overly sanitized children to widen their world view, I want to be visible for people who are closeted. I want to be a weirdo in public that weird kids see and feel less alone in the world. I want to be a freak in public that other adults see and are inspired by, even a little bit.

I don't want to be clean or PC. Nothing about what's happening is Clean or PC. We're all the enemy to these fuckers who want us dead, they don't see a difference in how we label ourselves. But if we're going to successfully fight these oppressors you can't be policing identities.

I don't fucking care if you don't understand it. You don't have to understand someone to respect them. Just get over yourself and move on and focus on the big problem that's being faced right now here in the USA as well as other countries going through the same shit.

If you want community, if you want family, if you want to win this fucking fight you better not say JACK FUCKING SHIT to the people who are fighting with you just because they identify with an "outdated" label, or have conflicting genders, or weird pronouns, or are "mspec lesbians, or are "lesbian men".

GET.OVER.IT!

Also, nothing against people who use the labels I've dropped (obviously). They're just not for me anymore.

[burningangel-burninghead]

Quick questioning update, eldritch is a far more apt description of my root nature than demon is. At my core is an unknowable roiling chaos trapped in a veil of flesh, that sometimes can be hidden behind something comprehensible to this feeble organic mind, in the form of the conflicting noemata showcasing aspects of it and the "symbolic forms" such as the dragon-panther. It is all ways for this brain to know the unknowable.

[superzupercool]

Lawrences name is Lawrence because of a joke about a male character.

Bill was just because normal guy name.

Henry was just... Plain name.

Vannesza was cool!!

We has other names but we disliked them.

Lawrence has a more feminine name but we don't share it here. Because Lawrence hates people, Lawrence hates tumblr.

We collectively use all pronouns for convince. We have individual preferences but it's not mind!

Henry minds a little because our hosts hate being a system.

Lawrence is emotional and feels better about system.

We have no collective name aside from legals which we no share due to agab. We also no system name.

So we now vann super zuper cool system. That joke. I no host.

Henry doesn't care about system names and Lawrence can't think.

[warpcore-lullabies]

Pronouns: they/them. Entity. Cryptid. Cosmic horror. Bitch.

Gender: there is no gender here. just a meat muppet. honk.

Sexuality: no matter how flat you make a pancake, its go two sides. no matter who I want or who wants me... its gay. its queer. It's all gay and queer. Succumb you fools.

[arofrog-archive]

oh yeah

im coming out again!

im aromantic (or at least on the aro spectrum)

idk if i do experience romantic attraction, but until i know, im aromantic

i still id as a lesbian bc i experience strong sensual, aesthetic and platonic attraction

still asexual, nonbinary and polyam, and my pronouns are still they/fae :)

[weenies]

I think I feel somewhat comfortable identifying as bi ?? Maybe it's not like Official™ just yet bc I'm still confused but I think am attracted to other genders besides my own