I'm so smort
now when she chews her cough drops, instead of getting sensory overload and becoming beyond irritated, I put in my left earbud and cover my right ear. I can still hear it but the impact is greatly reduced.
I might start keeping them in all day tbh cause I'm so tired of hearing her complain about how she didnt live her life with the same stories not just every day, but every 30 minutes sometimes. like lady I know you're sad and depressed and never worked on yourself but "it is what it is".it's not, you gave up at some point and convinced yourself you're fine. you know you're not happy because within a few days of meeting you just from listening to your stories that you choose to tell, I know you're not happy. and I cant do anything about YOUR happiness but MY happiness doesnt include listening to you be sad, ignorant, and mildly racist all day.