#inner bitch

[tekweela]

🔥🔥🔥 SHE'S GOT PARTICULAR TᵃᵃᵃᵃᵃᵃᵃᵃᵃᵃᵃᵃᵃᵃSTE 🔥🔥🔥

[bravelyforwardhangingon]

Difficult Conversations

So I am NOT good with conflict or confrontation. I already worry that people don’t like me, and so end up being a bit of a doormat... but I have a work situation that I need to resolve. My boss (and my therapist, and my husband, and one of my closest friends) want me to grow a backbone. I’ve put it off for a few days, but in a couple of hours I get to go talk to someone about an issue I’m having with one of their subordinates. I feel like a bit of a tattletale but this person is not being a good partner, and as my boss says “don’t make excuses for other people being bad at their jobs”  I’ve planned out how to approach it and what I’m going to say. But I’m still feeling anxious.  Wish me luck. 

[lilrebelkat69]

[catalina45]

When your best friend accuses you or stuff you haven't done then gets mad cos you won't take their crap 😑

[psycholadki]

Boring guys are the good ones

Today, I am feeling very emotional for the fuckboys in my life, Thank you so much for showing me that I deserve much better. Everything happens for a reason, the reason you entered my life was to show me that bad people exist and I should stay away from them, and also that good people exist too. They help us to finally be happy to find a good guy and not find him boring. Boring guys are the good ones. Fuckboys would make your heart beat faster, but only a good guy would make you feel secure. But unless and until you save yourself and be your own hero, you would find the bad ones interesting and the good ones not exciting enough. Own your baddassery, embrace your inner bitchness, then you would find the courage to be unapologetically you. Be you. Love yourself. Celebrate you. Till the time you find yourself and fall for her. That's all, this is where you stop. No search for prince charming, no hero is coming to save you. This is where you stop your search. From this point on, I will love myself and if a guy comes ( totally optional ), he will find the inner me sexy. The girl who goes out alone to dinners and day outs. Don't wait for him, honey. He is on his own journey, ( which may lead him to you, may not, totally depending on his free will ) If you two alchemists do collide and decide to give this alchemy a try, it will then be legendary and nothing short of magic.

[little-wolf-415]

Trying to write a magazine article for work but my inner bitch keeps leaking out...

[ishkosi-tushka-imilhlha]

What

[futurewomenleaders-blog]

The Inner Bitch

Have you ever had that moment where you see yourself overreacting but you are powerless to stop yourself?  And the worst part? It can be over something tiny, trivial even…you want to yell hey I’m not really this much of a bitch but then you think…well I kind of am…and you just let it all out. I’m not talking screaming at the cashier or rage walking. Yes sometimes I get the equivalent of road rage while walking. Yes, you can absolutely rage walk… I keep together. I’m trying to catch a train but I don’t scream at the old Asian woman that appears to be slightly afraid of the escalator. But whoa in my head I’m a huge bitch about it. Or when my husband is on the couch playing games or watching television and I’m trying to make lunch and get the four year old dressed.  My inner bitch wants to say “Get your lazy ass off the couch and help me.” But being the lady I am, I actually say “Honey, could you please give me a hand and get the baby dressed?”(insert sweet smile here) Or if I’m in the meeting and my ideas are completely dismissed…smile…breathe…stroke those egos…   Hey I’m aware I can’t let my inner bitchiness out (at least not all the time) but my mind well let’s just say it has its own monologue.  I just spent Christmas as my mother-in law and my inner bitch went wild but that’s whole other story….