And He spoke to me through someone else's life story
"When I entered the relationship I never consulted God and neither did I honour him in that relationship and I was so foolish to ask him why when he wasn't the one who led me. I just gathered the courage to tell my family that the relationship was just a figment of my fictitious imagination and l picked up the pieces of my heart and sew them together. The moment I accepted that the door was shut and that it was over, God began to work within me. I received my spiritual salvation. Sometimes God has to allow heart breaks inorder to get our attention because when people are in love they sometimes forsake God and give him a deaf ear. God closed that door because he was preparing me for greatness but too many times we focus so much on a closed door and miss the one that will be opening ahead of us. God wants to take you to canaan but you are still in Egypt enjoying the pain and being a slave to pharaoh. If I had remained in that situation I would have not been where I am today and when I look back, I smile and see the reason why God allowed the heart break to happen. It then proved Psalm 34 18 to be true. To let go of someone we love is the hardest part of our lives. Sometimes no matter how hard we try to make our relationships work they don’t work out the way we want them to. Sometimes despite all your efforts to make things work out breakups become inevitable. Although it is a painful and heart breaking to let go someone whom you have loved with all your heart and soul, you cannot allow it to leave you shattered and depressed for the rest of your life. It is not about winning or losing. It is not about pride or ego. It is all about having the courage to accept change and the strength to overcome and move on. You have to become an alchemist of your heart break and turn it into a blessing. Don’t grieve over a broken relationship because it was not meant to work out the way you wanted it. You can’t spend your life in the graveyard of guilt dealing with the corpses of the past. Know when things are dead, know when to release them and bury them. If you continue to work with the dry bones of dead issues, you too will begin to decay. No amount of work will resuscitate a corpse. Just gather all you inner strength to move on and to face the new world waiting to be conquered by you. When you meet the one who deserves your heart and soul you will realize why you had to let go and set yourself free… When you move out of a relationship your heart and mind is filled up with so many memories that it makes it difficult to breathe. It is agonizing when you have to let go a person whom you have loved with all your heart and soul. You place a person inside your heart with the only intention of keeping them there forever and don’t want to set them free. But they break the walls of your heart and force themselves out, ripping you apart, leaving you wounded. It is true that Heartbreak leaves your soul wounded for life if you don't treat yourself properly. you have to turn your heartbreak into a blessing and move on because you cannot grieve all your life. In the end you will realize it is so worth it. As my friend Michelle once said, no matter how much you do for certain people they can never be satisfied. We give so much to those who don’t deserve it and do so little for the ones who are worth our time. There won’t always be sunshine, we have to face the storms sometimes and this is only meant to make us stronger. The unfortunate thing is we often make the same mistake 3 or more times before we finally learn from it. However never have regrets for meeting certain people or going through certain situations, if it didn’t bring you what you want it gave you what you need. Just try have a positive outlook on every obstacle in your life because worrying only takes away our moments of joy. The most important thing is knowing when to take a stand and say “Enough is enough” , decisions are not easy to make but they have to be made, that is how you move on to the next chapter. As we live each day we learn different things about life, we realise who are the real people in our lives and who brings us down. QUALITY over QUANTITY that is what you need. Like they say you are the CEO of your own life so if you don’t have it in control you will live by the people. Above all have the Almighty as your guide and you won’t go astray. Sign the death certificate and bury the past"
Thank You God.