I wish it was that easy to just shake off the comments and lose the people that make these comments 😅 but sometimes it’s not that easy so here’s my advice 👇
If you’ve also ever been told an unsolicited comment regarding your weight or body then I want to say I’m sorry and to remind you to not allow the opinion of someone with deep-rooted insecurities make you feel small. Don’t change yourself to please another. Don’t starve yourself of joyous food and lifelong memories because of what someone said. Don’t conform to unrealistic beauty standards to please them.
These people have never done anything for you, but your body has. It has allowed you to feel joy and release sadness. It has housed your favourite foods. It has made your heart flutter. It has taken you on countless adventures and provided you with hundreds of joyful moments of intimacy.
So don’t let someone make you question your worth.
Your body is not the problem. They are. You’ve come too far to go back now. So keep enjoying your life in your glorious body and you watch as they stare in envy because they will never learn to feel at home in their bodies as you are learning to. Don’t let anyone control your happiness because it’s not them that live in your body it’s you. So the only opinion of your body that matters is your own.
