#intertransmisogyny

[vinterfeminism]

As much as I may not mention it, I am very much aware of several blogs on this site that stalk and harass transfems while claiming to just be anti-predator or keeping people safe. You aren't keeping anyone safe by harassing transfeminine people for weeks or even months at a time especially over small instances of behaviour you may not like.

[thisis-intersexism]

the entire way i was raised. being msn autistic and intersex and not knowing either of those until my teen years. being a failure of a girl but not allowed to be anything else so i just keep trying and trying to be a better girl but i was never meant to fit that standard. my body being subjected to bullying from my family and 'friends'. too much hair, too many scars and acne, too masculine in every aspect, nose and feet and shoulders are just like my dads. only reason i was seen as female was becayse i have long hair and girls still were scared of me in girls washroom when i wore a hoodie. even now as i identify as transfem most in the community hate me. i see a funny transfem meme and i have to think does the person who made it accept me in community or intend the meme for people like me. i like a persons post and check their blog and all their bio reads is tma theyfabs dni. even in real life im scared to bring up my experiences to anyone but my one friend. this is a very good blog for people like me and im glad its here. thank you for running this.

this is intermisogyny.

I'm glad you're here anon 🫂 this blog is made for you, you're welcome.

[intersexhyena]

If you provide any kind of resource for transfems and trans women while also using terms like tme/tma and considering masculinity perceived or otherwise a privilege I truly do not believe you have anyone except for binary white passing perisex trans women/fems in mind

[the-life-of-a-herm]

in response to this ask sent beforehand (link)

same here, its very.. scary? intimidating? petrifying? that people link certain sex characteristics to being transfem or transmasc— namely genitals and breasts. its baffling and completely counterproductive, painted with a coat of "progressive actions" and "protecting real trans folks" (sounds bad! sounds terrible! what the hell!)

like overall, ive come to notice that when people say/perpetuate that all transfems have to be "AMAB" and all transmascs have to be "AFAB", what they truly mean is that transfems all must have no breasts and a penis & all transmascs must have breasts + a vulva-uterus similarly, in order to truly validate that they are ""actually trans"" and not just ""faking it for society points"" (what society points?? theres no benefit from lying about being trans)

but also, isn't that against what people have been fighting and protesting about since forever..? the de-associatiom with a person's sex and gender? we've gone full circle from not caring about a trans person's genitals to "fact checking" wether or not they are a ""true trans[modality]"" and 'can' use these terms for their experience with gender. hello? what? where am i? who are you people???

i am a ctf transfem. ive been through loads of [trans]misoginy, intersexism, and currently people usually dont assume anything from me because i "pass as cis perisex"— but no one seems to understand that this isn't even close to what i truly want to become! and then comes the oddly mysogynistic comments about me being hysteric and a trender, a "diseased woman" (intersexism) and the like. which is so funny but in a "Haha oh god oh dear what the hell" way. very terrible! very degress-pilled! guys wake the fuck up!!!

truly, i dont think that it'll ever be useful to say "only XYZ people can be transfem/transmasc/trans[modality]". its always gonna result in the Obvious label policing and infighting and the checklist for being A Real Trans Person— which are borh ridiculous in the current status quo, we're losing our rights and people are worried about who can and who can't be trans? sounds like a sick, horrible joke. a nightmare! so many people have their head[s] up their own asses!

[if anything is poorly worded, i apologize, i'm sick and my cognitive functions are absolutely cooked ❤️‍🩹]

Hit the nail on the head with this one entirely, I have nothing to add (no spoons) and I am sorry this sat on the inbox.

[vinterfeminism]

It is truly saddening how some people on this site claim to be transfeminists but when it really comes to it they are not. They see intersex transfems like me as not actually being transfem because of my anatomy and the fact that I refuse to ID with any agab. I have even heard that supposedly someone made a post about me explicitly calling me afab without proof? But the way that information reached me was sorta stretched out so may not be accurate. Anyways I don't have an assigned sex and I am transfem and Iove myself for it yayayayayay 🫶🫶🫶🫶

[thisis-intermisogyny]

The way I know if I complain about my period that my transfem identity will be disregard and criticized, I think is intermisogyny?

This is intermisogyny

Transfem =/= not having a period, even regardless of assignment at birth one can experience periods.

[thisis-intersexism]

intersexism is literally expressing that you feel more connected to transfemininity due to intersexuality and have known this for years but suppressed it bc of perisex people's rampant intersexism and need to put everything into a sex binary that you do not fit and the other people in response tell you it's okay to just be a feminine transmasc. which is kinda crazy if I just said I always knew I was transfem I was just terrified to say so... (and these were other intersex individuals btw)

this is intersexism and transmisogyny.

i… just don’t have the words besides I’m sorry you had to experience such ignorance.

[vinterfeminism]

I would recommend everyone block @\randomanonlurker (edit: they changed urls to @\thisismyonlyfuckingaccount). They are starting arguments and taking anything said in the worst faith possible, as well as being transmisogynistic and predatorjacketing several intersex and transgender individuals. They also seem oblivious to the fact that an "educational resource" does not entail a resource is for children and accused me of wanting to show pornography to minors simply because I said pornography produced by intersex individuals in which genitalia is shown can be used by other intersex individuals to learn more about their own anatomy and see it more clearly if the one producing said pornography has the same or a similar variation to them. Clearly a person who has no interest in good faith discussion or apologizing for transmisogynistic and intersexist remarks.