@postguilt asked, 7. Is your muse the big spoon or the little spoon?
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jim definitely has a preference for being the little spoon. he’s short af (actually a friend, @snipertigermoran reminded me today that in canon sherlock calls jim ‘short-arse’ in the victorian episode lmao fucking wild) and his preference in lovers are... bigger than him, by far. i think his shortest ship partner/lover on this blog out of the lot is like 5’9 (chilton, @cozeios) and other than that the majority are 6’ and up.
jim likes affection, in fact he vies for it as long he’s of steady footing in the actual ‘relationship’ (or usually lack thereof) so any little things like spooning where it’s just a lover’s arm over his waist- he eats that up. he’s just so selective on who he’s ‘giving’ with because he’s a ‘taker’ as a person. spooning someone in return seems like a lot more giving intimacy than taking it so i could see him spooning someone in return but tbh at this moment in time only with like... some of his closest plotted relationships where he actually feels something for that other person and struggles it with happens now and then but not often.















