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ARE WE MAKING OUR DAUGHTERS, A FORCED LADY ACCEPTED BY THE SOCIETY OR TEACHING HER TO ACCEPT HERSELF?How many times have we told our daughters to compromise and apologize whenever they have a fight with their brothers, instead of telling them that a healthy argument includes apologies from both the sides?How many times, have we told our daughters, that they should adjust according to their husbands and in laws, instead of telling them that first they should be comfortable around them? How many times have we generalized the notion of cooking as part of the female's job, instead of telling them that yes cooking is necessary for survival, but it's not necessarily a job? How many times have we generalized doing household chores, like doing laundry, dusting and cleaning , gardening as part of daughters duty?How many times have we told our daughters not to raise their voice, even in their own house, whenever something wrong is happening to them instead of telling them to fight?How many times have we set a particular time limit for their arrival at home, just because we are too scared and afraid of the monsters lurking in the dark, instead of teaching them how to fight those assholes physically and not to back off?How many times have We criticized their career options in the name of safety for girl's, instead of encouraging them to go towards their goal and achieve it?How many times have we told as elders or as parents, to our daughters , that they shouldn't interfere when adults are making decisions, despite of knowing that they are part of the family, instead of including them in discussions which can broaden their horizon?We are so preoccupied by the notion of acceptance in the society that we often forget that our daughters need to accept themselves, before focusing on getting accepted by the society. Read blog on- pencoffee11.WordPress.com #writersofinstagram #blogs #blogsofinstagram #issuesthatmatter #issuestobefocused #writerscommunity #womenempowerment #feminism #generalisation #bloggerofinstagram #wordpressblogger #wordpress

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ARE WE MAKING OUR DAUGHTERS, A FORCED LADY ACCEPTED BY THE SOCIETY OR TEACHING HER TO ACCEPT HERSELF?How many times have we told our daughters to compromise and apologize whenever they have a fight with their brothers, instead of telling them that a healthy argument includes apologies from both the sides?How many times, have we told our daughters, that they should adjust according to their husbands and in laws, instead of telling them that first they should be comfortable around them? How many times have we generalized the notion of cooking as part of the female's job, instead of telling them that yes cooking is necessary for survival, but it's not necessarily a job? How many times have we generalized doing household chores, like doing laundry, dusting and cleaning , gardening as part of daughters duty?How many times have we told our daughters not to raise their voice, even in their own house, whenever something wrong is happening to them instead of telling them to fight?How many times have we set a particular time limit for their arrival at home, just because we are too scared and afraid of the monsters lurking in the dark, instead of teaching them how to fight those assholes physically and not to back off?How many times have We criticized their career options in the name of safety for girl's, instead of encouraging them to go towards their goal and achieve it?How many times have we told as elders or as parents, to our daughters , that they shouldn't interfere when adults are making decisions, despite of knowing that they are part of the family, instead of including them in discussions which can broaden their horizon?We are so preoccupied by the notion of acceptance in the society that we often forget that our daughters need to accept themselves, before focusing on getting accepted by the society. Read blog on- pencoffee11.WordPress.com #writersofinstagram #blogs #blogsofinstagram #issuesthatmatter #issuestobefocused #writerscommunity #womenempowerment #feminism #generalisation #bloggerofinstagram #wordpressblogger #wordpress

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ARE WE MAKING OUR DAUGHTERS, A FORCED LADY ACCEPTED BY THE SOCIETY OR TEACHING HER TO ACCEPT HERSELF?How many times have we told our daughters to compromise and apologize whenever they have a fight with their brothers, instead of telling them that a healthy argument includes apologies from both the sides?How many times, have we told our daughters, that they should adjust according to their husbands and in laws, instead of telling them that first they should be comfortable around them? How many times have we generalized the notion of cooking as part of the female's job, instead of telling them that yes cooking is necessary for survival, but it's not necessarily a job? How many times have we generalized doing household chores, like doing laundry, dusting and cleaning , gardening as part of daughters duty?How many times have we told our daughters not to raise their voice, even in their own house, whenever something wrong is happening to them instead of telling them to fight?How many times have we set a particular time limit for their arrival at home, just because we are too scared and afraid of the monsters lurking in the dark, instead of teaching them how to fight those assholes physically and not to back off?How many times have We criticized their career options in the name of safety for girl's, instead of encouraging them to go towards their goal and achieve it?How many times have we told as elders or as parents, to our daughters , that they shouldn't interfere when adults are making decisions, despite of knowing that they are part of the family, instead of including them in discussions which can broaden their horizon?We are so preoccupied by the notion of acceptance in the society that we often forget that our daughters need to accept themselves, before focusing on getting accepted by the society. Read blog on- pencoffee11.WordPress.com #writersofinstagram #blogs #blogsofinstagram #issuesthatmatter #issuestobefocused #writerscommunity #womenempowerment #feminism #generalisation #bloggerofinstagram #wordpressblogger #wordpress

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ARE WE MAKING OUR DAUGHTERS, A FORCED LADY ACCEPTED BY THE SOCIETY OR TEACHING HER TO ACCEPT HERSELF?How many times have we told our daughters to compromise and apologize whenever they have a fight with their brothers, instead of telling them that a healthy argument includes apologies from both the sides?How many times, have we told our daughters, that they should adjust according to their husbands and in laws, instead of telling them that first they should be comfortable around them? How many times have we generalized the notion of cooking as part of the female's job, instead of telling them that yes cooking is necessary for survival, but it's not necessarily a job? How many times have we generalized doing household chores, like doing laundry, dusting and cleaning , gardening as part of daughters duty?How many times have we told our daughters not to raise their voice, even in their own house, whenever something wrong is happening to them instead of telling them to fight?How many times have we set a particular time limit for their arrival at home, just because we are too scared and afraid of the monsters lurking in the dark, instead of teaching them how to fight those assholes physically and not to back off?How many times have We criticized their career options in the name of safety for girl's, instead of encouraging them to go towards their goal and achieve it?How many times have we told as elders or as parents, to our daughters , that they shouldn't interfere when adults are making decisions, despite of knowing that they are part of the family, instead of including them in discussions which can broaden their horizon?We are so preoccupied by the notion of acceptance in the society that we often forget that our daughters need to accept themselves, before focusing on getting accepted by the society. Read blog on- pencoffee11.WordPress.com #writersofinstagram #blogs #blogsofinstagram #issuesthatmatter #issuestobefocused #writerscommunity #womenempowerment #feminism #generalisation #bloggerofinstagram #wordpressblogger #wordpress