So I have a few friends who sometimes set me up on dates, or at least meet ups with different people, and usually my intention is to befriend first rather than date immediately.
( Unless that was the straight up intention, but I like discussion first, to get a gist of the person before anything since I'm really new to any of these concepts. )
Moral of the story though, this dude was really obsessed, and like trying to find where I live. He was very vulgar towards women, and I was informed of this after some time. Although it wasn't towards me, I still don't appreciate in regards to women in general. Also I'm not fond of unexplained or unreasonable clingyness. Or in general, cause I like space. I'm not the most cuddly person, if anything, I'm very awkward as a result and just avoid it.
Any mentions of marriage too soon as well is a mass turn off and I like just straightforward disapprove. Weddings are too costly, divorce is also pretty prominent, common laws are ok though. LOL.
But yeah Idk I just attract creepers and they were nice people until otherwise. I wasn't even in dating phase, but they were horribly attached. I made it very clear that we were not dating, and they agreed, yet were still possessive and texting constantly. I find it kind of alarming and this is why I keep things of potential self defense in my car.
@ ____ @;;;;;;; i might just be a dog lady in the end after aaaaaallll I mean if school doesn't work out and I go into trucking and hauling like my Dad, not much time to socialize when that comes to be LOL