this is childish but whatever i never said i wasn't
so to anyone else, grinding is probably no big deal. but to me, it's.....just...not something i need to see in my life. call me old-fashioned. since i do understand that i'm kind of weird in my way of thinking i can tolerate it to an extent. so it's okay if you do it a few times, or if you're a couple (couples get to do it cuz it's like a reward for committing. gj couples for committing). yeah i just wanted to clear that up.
so my conservative and old-fashioned way of thinking along with my severe anger towards him are what triggered my disgust. and if it weren't for that prolonged and frequent grinding, i wouldn't have minded it. at all.
and btw, if you need to do that to "have fun" you need to get some hobbies...or just some new dance moves....
this post is pretty pointless. except i think everyone should evaluate the appropriateness of grinding and its place on the dancefloor.