If you were to do something dumb and stupid that hurt you, you wouldn't do it again, would you? No...you wouldn't. Cause it would hurt just the same if you were to do it again. So, then why is it any different when an ex-lover breaks your heart once, you expect them not to do it again when they come crawling back; when you know its just going to hurt you just the same if they break your heart again. That's what i don't understand with relationships. Like. Why would you touch a fire when you already know its going to burn you again. I see so many people get heart broken over this problem. And it hurts. Cause it can all be avoided if you just had some common sense on the manner (not that im saying these people don't have any sense of common sense). So, if you get heart broken, don't go back to doing that dumb thing that already hurt you once. You are just going to get hurt again. That ex-lover wouldn't have broken your heart in the first place if they really cared. Remember that.