#jam.sex

[julem]

"does x count as sex?" or similar questions are a little sad aren't they? do you consider it sex? did it feel like sex? is that feeling mutual or ar least similar between you whoever else involved? if the answer is yes then tada! you had sex.

defining "sex" with a hard definition is unnecessary, becomes way too complex and risks being bigoted, exclusionary or other shitty shit.

[julem]

i got a full std test (just routine and all came back negative :)) which involved drawing blood and "almost" making myself vom swabbing the back of my throat and pissing all over my own hands :), got a hepB vaccination and a cavity filled all in two days and i was already feeling a little sickly. im beat. constant headaches before all that too and so much social interaction as well all ON TOP OF financial dread yeehaw

oh and i have mouldy ass hands :)))))