Hi! This is a tough question, as Rose Kennedy was a strong and deeply religious woman. She took the task of raising her children very seriously and looked at it as her life’s profession. She raised them with an iron fist and it has been recorded, in her own words, that she would resort to psychical punishments to discipline her children. She is quoted saying: “When the children needed to be spanked, I often used a ruler, and sometimes a coat hanger, which was often more convenient because in any room there would be a closet and the hangers in them would be right at hand”. She tried her hardest to keep most of the families problems hidden from outsiders and she heavily groomed her children to be in public service. She obsessed over the family image, had all the children’s teeth straightened, and complained that news photographers would not let her choose which photos to publish. So, in my personal opinion, I believe she loved all her children with her whole soul. But, she also took things her children did, very personally, as any failures would cause her to look bad as a mother and she took so much pride in her family being looked at as the “American Dream”. Any negative misgivings towards her family, Rose saw it as a referendum on the Kennedy’s as role models. So, I think the way she may have been towards her children, to the public’s eye, was that she was cold and sparse with her motherly emotions, but I like to assume that in private she was very compassionate for her children. She read to them daily and was very involved with their education. So yes, in conclusion, she may have seemed very cold, but I think women of her time, were raised to be so. I am sure there are things she wished she did differently, as none of us are perfect parents. I end this with these words, written by Rose herself:“In my life, I am often reminded that there is a destiny that rules over us, because no one whom I know about or whom I read about seems to be completely happy during a long time. Our family was the perfect family – boys brilliant, girls attractive and intelligent, money, prestige, a young father and mother of intelligence, devoted, exemplary habits and successful in the education of the children. Joe Jr. handsome, brilliant, example to all, killed in plane as was Kathleen, who had she lived, would have been the top social leader in the younger set in England, but neither she nor her husband lived. Jack with an ideal life, compatible, intellectually as well as socially, was unexpectedly assassinated. Bob and Ethel, ideally matched socially and temperamentally … talented, happy, young, assassinated. But God or ‘destiny’ just does not allow a family to exist which has all these star-studded adornments. Ted, too, has everything and may even be President, at least he should be successful and happy.”