Jilypad week 2023
Day 6
Questions for this Ship? (Link to Questions for Ship I found, but if anyone wants to contribute other questions - feel free to do so before the week starts!)
Who sleeps in the middle?
Sirius. He needs his own space since being in a triad with someone other than James can be overwhelming for him who is used to only having James that close. He disappears from time to time, sometimes a day, sometimes for weeks. James keeps worrying, scared to death that Sirius maybe is fed up with their three-way relationship and had left them for good. Lily sometimes worries as well in secret but she doesn't want to fuel James' frustration and fear more by voicing it. The moment Sirius gets back? He is stuck in the middle of the bed with the most aggressive cuddlers in the world. It's their routine until the next cycle of disappearance and desperation.
Who is the best cuddler?
James. Sharing a bed with him has two modes. Either cuddling or sex.
Who gets hurt the most?
Physically? James. He is reckless and lacks the grace that the Black DNA has blessed Sirius with. Lily doesn't do anything rash so by default she is more immune. Emotionally? Again James. He is confident and arrogant by nature but he is terrified of losing either Sirius or Lily one day, or losing them to each other with no place for him in the middle. He is terrified of being forgotten and not having their love one day and it hurts him so bad, the thought of being left alone. Lily and Sirius know it as well and make sure about his emotional stability in their relationship.
Who acts like the baby?
It's not even a question. 😂 of course it's spoiled baby Jamie boy. He keeps throwing a mini tantrum until Sirius pulls his leash and shuts him up, sometimes with a heated kiss and sometimes with a cold glare.
Who teases the others the most?
Their teasing type is different. Sirius has a cruel sense of sarcasm and a brutal honesty which always makes James pout but Lily quite enjoys it and responds with her own brand of dry humour. That is one of the first things Lily and Sirius bonded upon. James' way of teasing is way more physical. Be it by tickling the other two to death or fun and games in the bedroom.
Who proposes?
James of course. The man is a hopeless romantic, although Sirius preferred an open relationship despite James' begging insistence for marriage. That is why James is terrified of losing Sirius in a married life with Lily, despite being in an established triad. Sirius is a hurricane of feelings, over-sensitive and easy to trigger and James knows that he is walking on a knife's edge by trying to satisfy him and Lily (who are opposites in many ways) both.
Who is the most protective?
Lily. She will set you on fire if you mess with her lovers. Call it a woman's intuition or a motherly instinct but Lily Potter is not pleasant when it comes to dealing with her family's safety.
Who is the closest to the child? (Whether it be a fur baby, scale baby, or human child.)
Sirius. Lily and James can't help but to be a bit jealous because baby Harry always wants to sit on paddy's lap, wants to be spoon fed by him, wants to play with padfoot, etc. James whines playfully about it and Lily can't help but to be amused.
Their cat? She is basically Sirius' tail, accompanying him everywhere like a duckling. She sulks in the yard when Sirius is not home. She hates James and just tolerates Lily.
Who gives the best advice?
Neither. Sirius' tongue cuts deep with his brutal honesty, James can be too emotional and Lily too logical. They need to either solve the problem with the three of them involved or ask for someone else's advice.
Who is like a therapist?
James. He is kind and forgiving and had learned how to give love to others from early childhood. He can easily deal with messed up emotional stuff. He had dealt with Sirius' breakdown in the fifth year and Lily's hard hormonal pregnancy after all.
Who sings B and C to sleep?
Neither. Unless you count Sirius' distracted awkward humming while he brushes his teeth a lullaby.
Is the relationship healthy?
When Lily is involved, absolutely yes. James and Sirius are too overdosed on each other though with no shame.
Do A and B have a stronger bond with each other? Or do C and B or C and A have a stronger bond? Or are A, B, and C close together [equally]?
James and Sirius' bond is absolutely stronger, no doubt. But that doesn't mean Lily is unloved. It is just different. She is loved in a softer way, not like the dangerous clash and burn of the Sirius and the Sun.
Who can be trusted to be left home alone?
Sirius. Lily's potion making experiments can blow even the Diagon alley up if left unsupervised and James has a tendency to show off the cooking skills he doesn't have.
Who cries the most?
James. He is very open in showing his emotions.
Who is the softest?
Lily. She doesn't know it but she is softer than a marshmallow, both heart and body.
Who is the shortest?
Lily. She is easily picked up by Sirius or James for a kiss or a bridal style walk.
Who is the tallest?
Sirius. Case closed.
Who likes cuddles the most?
James. He feels loved and comfortable by cuddling.
Last of all, who sings terribly in the shower?
James sings in the shower and Lily sings along from outside as well just to mess with Sirius. Sirius is SO done with them.
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