There’s a term I’ve coined with a few of my friends called “The crystal sage effect”. Very simple story behind it, one of my friends was having hardships getting past a boss on dark souls 3 named “the crystal sage” now having played the game with an even wider array of people I have noticed something. Some people struggle really hard with this boss and the other group have no issue with it. Now of course this could be applied to any boss but I’ve yet to see two groups so equally divided between finding the boss easy or hard to defeat. Of course this is a wonderful thing to bring to real life as well, there are struggles that you’ll find near insurmountable in life, hurdles that take genuine time, care and attention to get yourself over. And others won’t find difficulty in doing so, but that’s life, you will struggle with certain things that others find difficult. And you will find things easy others find hard to overcome. Everyone’s skillset and mindset are different. A very very important thing to remember in life, me thinks. I am Johnathan Darksouls