Morning Pia! Wanted you to know I fell asleep smiling over the idea of Kadek being absolutely chewed out by this tiny Indo-Carribbean sub dangling serenely from his rigging and him eventually just standing there in leather, mouth slightly open as they yell about model minority myth and critical race theory. (They? She? Did you mention in the story if he's exclusively straight? Does he have sex with his models or only tie them?) Here for any more Kadek tidbits!
I haven't mentioned Kadek's sexuality in the story (that I remember). He considers himself queer but doesn't label himself beyond that, because he hates labels. Arden has considered his connection with Kadek to be 'queerplatonic,' but because Kadek doesn't like labels like that, Arden doesn't really harp on about it. But that is mentioned in the story.
He does have sex with some of his models! Kadek enjoys sex, though he will sometimes separate it out from his rope topping. :D
I can definitely see Kadek just standing there and listening about critical race theory and microaggressions and a whole bunch of other things. I imagine he's heard a lot by now! Some of it he takes in. I mean ultimately he's a rare club manager who is very firm about a victims-first policy (I wish this wasn't rare, but this can be quite rare).
Kadek is one of those people who will rile everyone up to have a laugh, and then will call the police on your abuser before anyone else has thought to and make sure you have access to support services afterwards.
I think he pisses people off when he's like 'I don't care about labels' but he's also never gotten a pronoun wrong either once he's been taught it. He's... I think some people hate him, some people love to hate him, some people hate to love him, and others just adore him and roll with 'that's just Kadek.' It helps that generally Kadek is laidback, and he will feed you, and he will open his house to you.
He makes mistakes though, that's for sure, and he has some crappy attitudes about kink! (All subs love collars, pfft). I'm looking forward to him coming into the story again :D