1) What is more difficult for you, looking into someones eyes when you are telling someone how you feel, or looking into someones eyes when they are telling you how they feel? : Telling them I don't love them back. I've seen that look of just heartbreak and I can't stand them. I mean, yeah. Telling someone you love them for the first time is hard, but I just can't stand seeing other people hurting. Especially if it's because of me.
6) You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late even once more, you are fired. Do you take the time to save the dogs life? Why or Why not?: I would save the dog, no matter what. If I'm fired, then so be it. If my boss can't believe me when I say that I was saving a drowning dog, or doesn't even care that I did, then I don't want to work for him! It's either a life or my job. The life is easily more important to me.
11) Does love = sex?: This is a difficult one. Personally, loving someone also means having sex with them, or at least wanting to. That being said, there is more to love than just sex. There's friendship, trust, occasional romance, and this is just me trying to be general. Personally, being in love with Jason has made me a better person (not that I was awful, but I just feel like he makes me better. Does that make any sense at all?). I have this great, amazing new friend who I trust with my life. I don't think I could get those feeling from only having sex with him. I mean, it makes me happy and it makes me feel good, but all of the other stuff comes from things other than sex. So. To me, love does not equal sex, but definitely needs it. That physical/emotional/mental connection is important.
16) Excluding romantic love, when was the last time you told someone you loved them. Who were they to you?: Uhhhhh. I'm trying to remember back, and I think it was either Aimee or Gail. They're both super good friends of mine (well, they are to me anyway lol). And I do love them. I don't know what I'd do without them :D
21) You are holding onto your grandmother’s hand and the hand of a newborn that you do not know as they hang over the edge of a cliff. You have to let one go to save the other. Who do you let fall to their death? What was your rationale for making the decision?: I was scared I was gonna get this one. When I read through all of the questions, I thought long and hard about this. On one hand (pun intended), my grandma has less life left than a child and would probably die in a few years anyway. On the other hand, I fucking love my grandma. And on a third hand, they'll probably die of a heart attack on the way down so they probably won't hit any rocks which makes me feel better. I'd probably have to let my grandma go. This kid has their whole life in front of them. It would be cruel to just have the opportunity to give it to them, then just rip it away. I'm sure my grandma would understand. And yes, I would have tons of guilt for a very long time. But she would probably tell me to save the kid anyway. So yeah. I would save the kid and live with guilt for the rest of my life (probably).
