Hi, can I request some relationship headconons of Karim fulham and his s/o. Btw I love your stuff :)
Before your relationship would actually begin, I feel that Karim would have to know you pretty well beforehand. He doesn’t take me as someone who would simply ask someone out based solely on physical attraction-you two would need to be compatible personality-wise. He would most likely not be attracted to someone who was too loud or outgoing, seeing as he’s pretty laid back and chill himself. I’m not ruling out the option of him dating an extrovert entirely, I just think that it wouldn’t last longterm due to your personality’s clashing. The only way I can see him getting close enough to someone to the point of asking them out is if he met them at the workplace-he would have enough time to both get to know you and confirm his feelings. It would def take him some time to realize his feelings and gain the courage to confront you about them. He seems all chill and composed but when he really likes someone it’s difficult for him to keep his feelings under wraps before expressing them. Being a fire soldier his job is naturally exhausting, and he would value someone who could understand and relate to that. I think he’d be attracted to someone who was also introverted, but maybe a bit quieter than himself?
When he actually does get the courage to ask you out, he said it so casually that you almost missed it. The two of you were sharing a casual meal together during lunch when he mentioned: “We should do this more often.”
“We do this every day we don’t have a mission Karim.” you responded with a slightly deadpan expression, confused at your fellow soldier's statement.
“I meant on an actual date idiot.”
“Oh.”
The actual date would probably take place at a family-owned restaurant of sorts, something nice and quiet but not too classy and upscale. He honestly just wanted to go somewhere where y’all could talk privately without the interference of anyone in Company 1. In the early stages of the relationship, I believe he’d prefer to keep things casual and low-key, meaning he wouldn’t gossip to anyone else about what was going on between you two. Also during this time, he will start to get more touchy and affectionate with you, not in around others of course (pda would def be a no for him, the most he would do is a hug and peck on the forehead goodbye).
When the relationship becomes long term he would be less low key about it and unafraid to talk about it with others. Not that he was afraid in the first place, he just valued your privacy and everyone didn’t need to know your business. As stated earlier, he isn’t the most physically affectionate person, but he’d rather show his love in different ways. For example, if you two were ever on a mission together-he would check on you constantly, not in an overbearing way though. He knows your strong and that you can handle yourself, he just wants to make sure the love of his life is safe🥺. Another way he would show his love is taking care of you were tired or had just returned back from a mission. I can also see him sometimes doing random things like buying you flowers, but if you mention it to anyone else he will def deny it.
When you get into fights and disagreements, he would try and give you some personal space before addressing it. He values your relationship a lot and wouldn’t want to let some petty argument get in the way of that. Overall 10/10 bf would highly recommend.