i’ve changed my tune about something a bit.
i always preferred bondage to being pinned.
it felt like a no brainer—the ler being able to use both hands.
let’s talk about being pinned.
first of all, there’s more of a shock factor that has the potential to send you into a panic. because one second you’re free. and the next you’re not.
and the realization comes in waves.
they’re manhandling you a bit. that’s not fair. you’re being tickled (also not fair). wait. now you stopped fighting back. and you can’t move. wait. you really can’t move. at all. no matter how hard you try.
and then there’s the noticeable difference in how it feels to be restrained in that way.
bondage makes you feel helpless. exposed. vulnerable. but it’s just not quite as… intimate.
pinning has that skin to skin contact. their hands gripped around your wrists. their weight on top of you. you can feel their strength. you can sense their smugness and their pride. they’ve successfully trapped their prey. and now?
now they can do whatever they want with it.