Killer Attitudes In Relationships And Marriage. Mr. and Mrs. Johnson have not spoken to each other for one month! What? Are you whining me ni? And yet they are both praying daily! Don’t they understand?There are the good days in marriage and those “bad” days when issues arise between married couples. There are days singles in courtship go out for ice cream, eat out, to cinemas, and all that and there are days calls are not picked up! Killer attitudes in relationships and marriage must not be allowed to seep in! Wise couples make up their mind that nothing will come between them. Foolish couples gravitate to the times and allow situations to determine their joy.It is wise to work together and get past “feelings!” It is a fool who fights and bickers over everything.When the couple is financially buoyant, husband and wife are friends. When the finances are down, there is tactical withdrawal on one or both sides.Love in marriage should not be based on what is available or what is not.When either of the spouses starts feeling cheated, it is a fundamental and foundational issue whether they really love themselves genuinely.If husband and wife have a mutual understanding that they are one, it becomes easier to handle these tense moments.Selfishness has many flavours. The husband or wife is not complaining, but there is uneasy silence and withdrawal.