The Kindness & Positivity Jar
It’s very easy to get into a negative frame of mind about the world, especially if, like me, you have a tendency to a negative cognitive bias. You can feel as though, day after day, everyone you encounter is trying to make your life more difficult. In the hustle and bustle of everyday life, it can seem that people are so inconsiderate that they would shove you out of the way if it got them what they wanted faster. I, too, have days when I feel like the world is out to get me, and human beings seem to be missing some humanity.
At these times I find that the littlest gestures or a couple of kind words can make all the difference to how I feel, so I decided to start to keep a record of these little rays of sunshine. I guess I wanted to prove to myself that the world isn’t a largely negative place, and give myself permission to listen to my heart; which tells me to see the good in people as much as possible.
During 2017 I started a jar. Each time someone did something that stood out as particularly kind or that turned my mood around, I took a little scrap of paper and wrote it down, folded it up and put it in the jar. At the end of the year, I was able to look back at how much positivity and kindness there really is. When I look back, it reminds me that there are some truly lovely people out there and that I'm lucky to quite a few in my life. Here are some of the things from the jar; I've decided to do something a bit different and present each one as a picture so they're a bit more interesting: