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16. 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘪𝘴 / 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘮𝘶𝘴𝘦'𝘴 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 𝘭𝘢𝘯𝘨𝘶𝘢𝘨𝘦(𝘴)?
Saint is someone that does for people. acts of service is something he does all the time. he's always willing to perform, to go above and beyond to make sure his love's life is easier with him in, and he has the . . . most harrowing need to be useful. he thinks he's not worth anything if he's not giving and giving and giving himself in the act of service to his loved ones. he doesn't expect this back or think he's owed it. the only thing he would require of anyone in return is just qualify time and touch. he needs very desperately to be held. he wants his love to trap him under their body weight and hold him. Quality time is a must. what he considers quality time is lax than most people i believe. quality time for him is just sitting and being in their presence, even if no one is talking or their attention is elsewhere. just being there is enough. gifts and words of affirmation are appreciated. gifts, especially, are put somewhere he can see it, touch it, enjoy it, but it's definitely not a requirement. he wouldn't ever just expect it nor does he think he's owed any gifts. words of affirmation are something he should require, but he never will. he will worry and worry and worry himself sick wondering if he's enough, knowing he isn't enough, wondering if they could ever love him, wonder rif they even like him, wondering if they'll leave him, ect . . . in his mind, he's a host of insecurities and worry when it comes to stuff like thatm words of affirmation make him feel better, but he wouldn't expect or think they should have to. they're his own hang-ups and he shouldn't burden them his insecurities. they have their own things to worry about.
30. 𝘸𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘮𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘣𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘢𝘯 𝘰𝘱𝘦𝘯/𝘯𝘰𝘯-𝘦𝘹𝘤𝘭𝘶𝘴𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘳𝘦𝘭𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘱? 𝘸𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘪𝘵 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮 𝘪𝘯𝘴𝘦𝘤𝘶𝘳𝘦, 𝘰𝘳 𝘸𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘣𝘦 𝘰𝘱𝘦𝘯 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘳𝘺𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘪𝘵?
FUCK NO , there is no conceivable part of saint that could or would ever entertain it. honestly , if he even sniffed that you're someone who has these sort of proclivities? he's not bothering. it doesn't matter if they'd change their preference for it either , it's a firm no. regardless of whether it's true or not , he feels like there's a sense of wanting more — of wanting to have your cake and eat it , too. and it's not for him. he doesn't share very well. and there's a sense of they will leave him for whoever they find that does it for them. a polycule is a hell no. a thruple is very much pushing it , but in terms of willingness and viability. . . it's the most he's capable of.