Hi! I'm an aspiring author, and after reading one of your posts I realised that my conception of generals and soldiers and how they behave is very clouded by the media and popular fiction. Could you tell me about the reality of people who work in the military? I know that every person is different but some general statements would be great, like how much they care about collateral damage, racism, being trigger happy, concern for locals, etc.
Collateral damage is HUGE. There is actually a full report you have to do before certain events just to make sure civilian impact is minimal (at least, there was in my job. That happens on different echelons, so not everyone will have to do that.)
There is an entire job -- Civil Affairs (CA) -- whose focus is on “Winning the hearts and minds.” They care about the locals, about loss of life, about collateral damage, and repairing the economy and infrastructure of the places we enter. For example, if one of our guys kills someone’s camel, CA has to pay blood money not only for the camel, but for the offspring it would have had.
Generals care, but they’re at a much higher level than TV and movies portray. It is not common for them to interact with the regular joes. They’re not following what an individual unit does; they tend to oversee commands, corps, and other high levels, not companies, battalions, and brigades. They’re looking at the big picture; macro, not micro. So really, if your stories are military-based, and about regular, everyday Soldiers, the chance of them encountering a general is pretty slim. It happens, of course, but not often enough that people wouldn’t make a huge deal out of it, to the point that you’d need very detailed writing that would probably bore you to bits.
There’s an ever-growing emphasis on getting rid of racism, sexism, sexual assault, and other discrimination in the military. We have many annual briefs to raise awareness on the matter, and Equal Opportunity advocates in each unit.
I hope this answered your questions!